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I Could Be Wrong...
The theory is this... When with, or really really interested in somone that you don't want to make an outside advance on someone else, THAT is the time the girls start approaching you. As well, when you're in a slump that is exactly what it is... no one seems to take interest in you.
The basis for this comes from the non-verbal signs that everyone unconsciously sends. Apparently, when you're with someone or highly interested in somone to which that interest is reciporcated, you walk with you head higher, more often in a good mood, and most often than not appear more attractive. Coincidently, the reverse is true as well, if you're not involved, your head isn't as high as it should be, you have more mood swings, and some advances towards the opposite sex seem to be in desperation. I'm sure if you take a minute to reflect back on your own life, there would be a considerable coincidence between this theory and your own experiences.
With that being said, I have mentioned about "Internet Girl" in the last update, whom we shall now call "Jennifer". She and I have talked now for almost three weeks... and ya know I can't believe its been that long, time seems to slow down to a stop when I talk with her. Hours pass by which to me seem only minutes and sometimes even seconds... In truth, I have never met someone who has this effect on me before. And in truth, I have never actually "met" her... so far its only been over the internet and the phone. She has affected my life so much that the people I work with have noticed the difference in my attitude and mood... which has been positive so far.
Which brings me back to the theory, a couple of days ago, I found out that there is somone interested in me from my work. While she is a good person, and we joke around alot, there are many differences between us that I wouldn't consider it worth the while. One, she is only in the country for another 4 months... Two, she has children back in her homeland... and three, she is a different race than I am... while this last one has really no particular basis, being that I am not rasict on any plane... just that people of different races do have different likes and dislikes. My thoughts, I know, don't really fit into hers, and hers do not really fit into mine.... which touches another subject I have talked about... basing a relationship on sex... which is never a good idea in my book.
At this point in my life, I am looking for a relationship... not something based purely on sex. Which is why I am looking forward to Jennifer... we have so much to talk about, and seem to go on with any subject... its truly amazing to me.
Wish me the best..... don't worry, I'll still be giving updates to this page as thoughts are presented to me. Keep 'em coming.