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Somehow, the conversation got started on me and how I was the nice guy. Midway through this conversation two of the girls had their arms around me, and I with one arm around each of them, and yet, we're still talking about what a nice guy I am (please someone poke my eye with a blunt object).
Anyways, after one of their repeated comments on how nice I was, I decided to try and take control of the conversation and posed the question :
"If I am so nice, why can't I get a girlfriend? I mean, don't you girls look for nice guys to go out with?"
One of them said that they do look for nice guys, but that I was a special case, because I could be such a good friend as well, that they could talk to me about anything, and because of that image I have, girls don't want to date me because they would lose a confidant.
The other said, that I was perfect boyfriend material, but agreed with the first that they could talk to me about anything, especially relationship advice. (why someone would ask me about relationship advice, seeing that I haven't been in one for years).
Of course, these answers just thrilled me... and I offhandly remarked that as of the following day I was gonna become and asshole because they are the ones that get the girls. Both of them laughed, hugged me tighter and said that I couldn't if I tried.... which is probably true, for I don't know how to be an asshole, I just know how to be me.
If anyone has guidlines to chance a nice guy into an asshole