Imagine the moment when your loved one tells you that he/she is not happy with your relationship. They feel 'under the thumb' 'unloved' or they feel there is a 'lack of attention'. And then they make it out as if all these things are you fault. then they act all emotionally hurt and stuff so your whole family tells you how mean you are being. Of course No one cares that all you are doing is being strong, trying your hardest not to cry every single stupid second of the day as you really feel like doing that, right after shouting at everyone for being stupid and ignorant and unloyal. But hey, just keep smiling, pretend you're happy and everythings good.
The stages you might go through, triggered by this first moment:
1.Disbelief
2.Anger
3.Confusion
4.Anger
5.depression
6.Suicidalness
7.Apathy
8.Painfully slow recovery
9.Death threats towards ex-loved one
10. Pure Disliking
After you finished going through all these stages, which can be very muddled up and not in this exact order, you will feel a lot better. Until the next lucky man comes along, ready and set to destroy your newly found confidence, inner peace, and general happiness and emotional health.