with a hope that it is of some value to You as You start or continue Your journey.
It is common for new Dominants, just discovering Themselves to struggle with Their feelings such as; denial, disgust and self confidence.
Those fears are fought within causing turmoil.
You are not alone, the most confident and experienced Dominant, is One that is willing to admit to His/Her weaknesses and who does not hesitate to speak to O/others on how to over come those feelings.
A Master/Mistress must be able to control Him/Herself before They can truely control another.
As a Dominant, You understand that being Dominant is merely who and what You are.
Your Dominance is such that it need not be constantly and actively "demonstrated", but because it comes from within, Your Dominance will be readily apparent through Your self control and Your responsible actions.
The responsibility of leadership and caring for others has always been a heavy one, yet one that will bring You the greatest of joys. For nothing else will satisify the Fire within You. (oooo that fire!)
The submissive is the half that makes You whole, cherish her/his gift to You. Don't be alarmed at Your need for her/him, but instead learn how to care for Your submissive.
Let Your hard work be Your gift back to her/him.
With respect, these humble words and links are offered to You, take what You will ... and travel well and safe in Your journey.
a special thank you to Sir-Ger and Jessedra
for without T/their input this page would not be possible.
satin_ocean
Although perhaps born with a Dominant personality, You were not born with a Dominants knowledge nor with an understanding of Your submissive.
To be a Dominant One must work hard, learn, study. Anything less, is dangerous to the submissive.
Absolute power, corrupts absolutely.
Dominant does not mean arrogance (well okay a little arrogance). Respect flows in two directions, as does love.
but by doing so give everything needed
Sir Just
Rule #1 - Safe, Sane and Consensual.
Rule #2 - Cherish the gift given to You, dont abuse.
Rule #3 - You make the rules as You wish,
choose them wisely, with purpose.
