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| Its been a long time since I have last up dated this. So here is a breif update. I am married and have moved to New York City (Queens) to be exact. I meet a wonderful man Marco and he proposed to me rather quickly (after only 3 months) I accpted and moved to NYC. We were married on July 29th 2001. It was a wonderful wedding. Since then we have baught a house in Bellerose Queens and I work in Farmingdale. Life has been truely wonderful. The adjustment from living on the west coast to the east coast was very hard on me and our relationship. But I am happy to say that once the adjustment was finished things have been great. So far married life gets better with each passing day. I think a lot about what will happen when I die. I am not scared or worried, I just wonder. Will I be missed and if so by who? Where will all of my worldly possessions go? If my husband and I do not have children who will help take of me if I get old and unable to do it myself? Is this a good reason to have children? You see, you may not know this but hubby and I have decided that we do not want children. He says never and I have been saying wait 5 years for the past 4 years, and it is still wait 5 years for me. Sure there are a number of neices and nephews that are on his side, but what about mine? The only family I have is a half brother that is 20 years younger than me and I don't even know his last name. His first name is Steven. The difficulty in getting to know him better is that the only link to him is through my mother, his mother. But I have to call her and hear more excuses from her about why she has not called me. I just would rather she be intrested in catching up. Not giving me a bunch of excuses. 5/26/2005 This will be a breif up date. A year ago my father died. It was very hard on me and worst of all it could have been avoided. But his own personality is what alowed it to happen. I have been trying to get things in order regarding all of his things and the estate. I am almost finished with it all. Marco and I are doing fine. It will be a marriage of 4 years this July. I still have no desire to have a child, and he seems fine with that also. We are happy with our life as it is. My job is going great. I now work in Long Island at a Pharmaceutical company. Opie my wonderful cat is still keeping me up at night with all of his meownig. But I love him anyway. Married life can get very confortable and a bit common. Sometimes I find myself wanting something different and a change of pase. But having a house and bills and things like that it is hard to get away some times. I at times miss being single and being able to flirt and have fun with different people. I am sure that everyone who was socially acitve before marriage feels that at time point in the marriage. Well enought for now but I am going to add to this more in the future I think. I need to get intouch with my self and I think that this will help. 5/12/2006 A year later and so much has changed. I am no longer married, I am not divorced yet, but he moved out back in Januray. I need to add more , but don't have the time right now. I hope to spend more time on this very soon. |
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