If I Had My Child To Raise Over Again...

 

If I had my child to raise over again,

I’d finger-paint more, and point the finger less.

I would do less correcting and more connecting.

I’d take my eyes off my watch,

and watch with my eyes.

I would care to know less and know to care more.

I’d take more hikes and fly more kites.

I’d stop playing serious, and seriously play.

I would run through more fields

and gaze at more stars.

I’d do more hugging and less tugging.

I’d build self-esteem first, and the house later.

I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.

I’d teach less about the love of power,

And more about the power of love.

~Diane Loomans

My Hands Were Busy…

 

My hands were busy through the day

I didn’t have much time to play

The little games you asked me to,

I didn’t have much time for you.

I’d wash your clothes; I’d sew and cook

But when you’d bring your picture book

And ask me please to share your fun,

I’d say, “A little later, Son.”

I’d tuck you in all safe at night

And hear your prayers, turn out the light,

Then tiptoe softly to the door...

I wish I’d stayed a minute more.

 

For life is short, the years rush past...

A little boy grows up so fast.

No longer is he at your side,

His precious secrets to confide.

The picture books are put away,

There are no longer games to play,

No goodnight kiss, no prayers to hear,

That all belongs to yesteryear.

My hands, once busy, now are still.

The days are long and hard to fill.

I wish I could go back and do

The little things you asked me to!

~Author Unknown

Mothers are so many things…. Fern Baumeister found this on a mother’s day from her daughter:

My Mom

 

My Mother Is:

A nurse when I had bronchitis,

A baker when she makes cinnamon buns,

A housekeeper when we go to school,

A clothes washer when I get grass spots on my dress,

A mender when my button came off my coat,

An ironer when she irons my Brownie uniform,

A shopper for rabbit food,

A teacher when she learned me how to walk,

A seamstress when she made a dress,

A playmate when she plays ball,

She is strong when she takes my teeth out,

She is kind when she lets me go on the swings,

She is pretty when she puts lipstick on,

She is happy when we go to school.

Love Nikky

The Teen Commandments

 

I.   Stop and think before you drink -- THEN DON’T.

II.  Don’t let your parents down; they brought you up.

III. Be humble enough to obey.  You will be giving orders yourself someday.

IV. At the first moment turn away from unclean thinking-- at the first moment!

V.  Don’t show off driving.  If you want to race, go to Indianapolis.

VI. Choose a date that would make a good mate.

VII. Pray to God often and faithfully.

VIII. Choose your companions carefully---you are what they are.

IX. Avoid following the crowd.  Be an engine --not a caboose.

X. Or even better-- Keep the original Ten Commandments.

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