If a person threatens suicide, take him or her seriously
Ask whether the person has a specific plan and means to follow through with it
Be direct, talk openly and freely
Allow the person to express his or her feelings
Do not give advice
Express what you think, but do not be judgmental
Do not dare or challenge the person
Do not allow yourself to be sworn to secrecy
Be willing to listen. This affirms a person's feelings.
Suggest to the person that he or she call a suicide center or crisis intervention center, or talk with a trusted teacher, counselor, doctor, member of the clergy, or other adult. If the person refuses, talk to one of these people or your parents for advice on handling the situation.
