Thinking of the little aspects of life that we usually tend to take for granted and stress about the problems that in the big picture all sort themselves out at the end of the day seeming so sad how we can't appreciate what we have and always want we can never obtain thinking about how to obtain it and never stopping to look at the present and how precious it is for nobody knows what will happen in the next ten minutes hour or day with life taking unexpected turns that change who you are and have become and everything you want to be for who we are now will never come from what we want to be but rather from what we have passed and are passing through and thus we can and should take those experiences and never hold them against ourself or anybody but rather absorb them and use them to make us a better person for today because the ones who we love and those who love us are the people we just assume are there at all times but you never know what may happen in the next 10 minutes hour or day so stop and look around at what you have accomplished what you have made yourself to be the experiences that have made you that way and simply smile knowing that you have the control to keep them the same or change them whether in the pits or in exctacy we hold the control of making it all better just by taking everything day by day by respecting yourself your life and those around you for God never placed us into this world to be perfect nor to be imperfect but just to live and love living....