I ended up spending the day working (saturday). But I made some progress.
In the evening, I got invited out with one'a the Afrikaans speaking guys from work to his parents' house, some friends were coming over to play computer games. I'm not much into computer games, but the chance to see a family home was appealing.
It was further into the suburbs, they had a security gate, but not every house in the neighborhood did. The most pronounced difference was the high ceilings! Other than that, and the funny electical plugs, it coulda been an American house.
So, after my coworker's girlfriend (who is also my co-worker) cooks me a really nice steak and potato meal, My coworker's buddies show up at 8, every one of them has a computer, except for one guy who brought two, they start tearing up my host's Mom's living room moving furniture, running cables, setting up computers, (My mother NEVER woulds tolerated that!) by about midnight they had games loaded on all 6 computers and were playing networked games, I was driven back to my hotel (at speeds of 150 kph, approaching 100 mph) around 3am! Ah, another night in darkest africa.