thought

We are so quick to complain about not having a man
We are so quick to wait on his ass
We are so quick to say what we won't put up with
But yet instill we are looking

What are we looking for
Is it that man with that nice house on the hill
That man with that good credit to buy our material wants
That man with the escalade , to drive us in
That man with that six figure income

You my sister that has said yes to all of this
What do you have to offer
What kind of house do you live in
What does your credit look like
And is that a neon I saw you driving
What does your pay stub look like
Are you still struggling

Yeah some of us was taught that we can struggle by ourselves and this is true
But me; my sister
Give me a man that wants to work with me for that nice house
That good credit
That escalade
That six figure income
To become one
To learn
To grow
To share

Believe me if it is all his to start
What purpose do you serve, other than sex
And to settle for that the stronger one, you have belittled yourself for material things that dosn't even belong to you
You have become dependent and dibilitated
If you don't have it why would you expect him to
Instead of looking at what he has try looking at what you can accomplish as a team
Because when all fails remember it was never yours to start.

This was written after I had a conversation with a real good friend of mine that is on that search for Mr. Right . What I didn't understand is how can you look for Mr. Right when you are far from Mrs. Right
You can't expect a man to give you the world when you can't give yourself a decent place to lay your head.If you are not the person that you are looking for it is best that you be with someone that wants the same things in life you do.

You will realize that Mr. Right was right there he just needed Mrs. Rights help, and vise versa.