Your Slave Application
The perfect application will answer the following questions, be carefully spell-checked (lowercase letters and/third person referrant is acceptable... it denotes both a submissive attitude and prior D/s experience. If this is not true of you, don't fake it!), and include a recent photograph.
There are several ways to send your application.
- 1) Calling now and reading your answers is the fastest and most expensive way, because of the demands on my time- talk is never cheap.
- 2) cut and paste into an e-mail missive is a popular way to respond. It allows you time, sometimes too much time to phrase your answers. e-mail should be addressed to queen97440@yahoo.com and sent in the body of the message only! No attached files other than photos will be accepted.
- 3) join my yahoo group slavesintraining and an application will be mailed to you directly.
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Name.
At a minimum your first name and slave name if any. Preference is given to those who are able/trusting enough to share their whole name. This makes it possible for me to do background checks, if I am so inclined. Discretion is assured. Honestly, can you sincerely discuss sharing your life with someone whom you do not have the confidence to share your name? (In a double standard that is typical of D/s, my legal name is shared only in the last stages of merging -if at all. However, there are hundreds of you and only one of me. Plus, I make all the rules. Would you have it any other way?)
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Age.
No one under 18 should be viewing this page. Be honest about your age. *Your* assumption that I would prefer you to be 30 rather than 50 has nothing to do MY reality. I can put all those skills learned in a lifetime to excellent use. If you are 18 to twenty-something, I would love to see your sweet young flesh at the end of my leash... but tell me how you know you're submissive. Tell me what things in your life you have committed to -projects that have been hard work and rewarding- such as 4H, drama, music, pet care, childcare, work, etc. Ask yourself difficult questions: are you the sort of person to commit to something on a whim and then "oh, well.. on to the next thing" ?
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Gender.
The possible answers to this question are endless. Click here for some suggestions/guidelines.
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Location.
Include your proximity to me, when you plan to visit my area or your willingness to relocate. If you are willing to relocate, what is your ability to do so? Can you afford to bring yourself to me? Have you considered when? What would you need to know or do for relocation to be possible?
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Skills.
This means nonsexual skills. (Typing, carpentry, plumbing, gardening, cooking, photography, electrical work, masonry, musical instrument, medical, homeopathic, massage, accupressure, computer repair, etc) DO NOT regale me with tales of your stunning feats of cunnilingus. If I wanted to I could have a different man eat my pussy every hour of every day... any fact any woman with an iota of self-confidence could... without dipping into the submissive pool. Vanilla sex is neither what I am offering or seeking. Don't annoy me with your adolescent fantasies.
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Prior BDSM experience.
If you have no experience, then talk about your self-discovery. When did you first see yourself as submissive/masochist/whatever? What have you read or done to pursue that interest? If your experience has been predominantly with pro-dommes, then say so. This shows a level of (at least) financial commitment and I have had much success and enjoyment with pro-domme trained submissive who have both learned how to communicate their own desires and recognize how valuable my attention is.
- Sexual orientation. Both in practice and in principal.
- Hard limits. A hard limit is the thing you WILL NOT do.
- Desired relationship. What you are hoping for? Looking for? Applying for?
- Fetishes, if any. (I don't want an erotic novel here or even a 3 page jack-off story. Just simply put in words the things -if any- that recharge your batteries. I will be able to see which we have in common and what can be used as rewards for exemplary behavior.)
- And finally... one last question: WHY ME? With a world full of women and many of them dominant, what makes you think I am the one to devote yourself to?