Alternative; Industrial; Experimental. Their music sounds horrible to adults. But like all generations who came before them, it is their own. Advice: buy the teen a headset.

In this era, plot and theme sometimes are secondary to special effects and digital sound. Today's young film-goers are looking for peak experiences. They still love a story with a strong message, however.

Today's teens have many competitive venues from which to choose, and they compete passionately. Hackey Sack competitions are as meaningful as football games--and sometimes more challenging. Tip: Support any competitive or physical activity they choose.

Computer literacy and keyboarding skills have joined the three"R's" as part of a basic education. Encourage teens to read; allow them to cyber-create.

Skaters drive us nuts sometimes! Their clothing is peculiar. They ride on sidewalks and do tricks in the street. Tip: Buy them a membership at a skate park.

Mosh pits, body-passing and dancing without intimacy--it's all so crazy. Remember, the lindy drove adults insane too!

Yes, They Are drawn to the occult. Not all of it is evil. Be wary if your teen is into black arts or satanism or violence. Look for artwork on notebooks and body carvings. Watching "Buffy the Vampire Slayer"does not make them wicked.

Give teens their small rebellions; their little victories. Let them get piercings if they must; allow them to color their hair chartreuse if they will; don't sweat the baggie clothing or their choice of music. Let them formulate a posture; an identity. If they are not hassled over the small things, they won't seek bigger and more frightening wars to wage.

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