Thoughts of Sara's Day

July 13th: Okay so earlier on today I had a conversation with my mom about her old boyfriend. Apparently, she was 16 in school and smart...he was 24 7th grade drop out and kinda out there...he also couldn't keep his dick in his pants (did I mention he was hot?)...None the less, their relationship lasted four years. But at age 20 and 28, my mother going off to university and him going no where, she broke it off. Now, from this story I started thinking about the age old question. If someone cheats on you, should you forgive them and take them back, or do you make them take a hike? Well, while my mom was young and a teenager, she decided she should forgive and forget. But is that right for the new age girl? Something deep down says no, it isn't. I don't agree with my mother's actions, but instead I will choose my own coarse. In my heart I know that if someone cheats on you, then it wasn't supposed to work out. Think about it. They wouldn't have done it if they were truely content with the relationship in the first place. So I say that ending the relationship is the right thing to do. Because one, the relationship was probably going down the tube to start with (although thats not with everyone) and two, it ruins the trust that is supposed to be in a relationship. But on the other side of this issue...there is also the fact that you need to weigh the relationship before making the "forgive and forget" decision. Personally, they get points if they have never lied to you before that, and if they told you straight up they made the mistake. So when it comes your turn to cheat or be cheated on, think and take in all the facts...make the right decision. FOR YOU!

June 16th: Okay. This is a thought about teenage sex. So I can understand why people do it. What I don't understand is why they don't do it responsibly. In reality, what difference does it make what age you have it at (although personally I believe 14 is too young), but what matters is that its responsible. Because why would you want to get pregnant at age 14? It would ruin your life! Anyway I would also like to say that you should never EVER let anyone pressure you into it! It's your decision and whatever you decide should be respected by everyone! Because if a guy ever pressures you into it, he's not right for you...drop him faster then a hot plate in science class. Yeah. I just needed to say that. Oh yeah and one more thing...Does my butt look big in these pants??? Honestly?

May 28th: So I'm really confused right now so if this makes no sense I'm sorry. I have gone through life with certain morals and such, and then I look at teenagers today and cringe. I know that some of my friends are such teenagers and it scares me how little respect they have and how little knowledge they have about the world around them. They are also so wrapped up in themselves that they can't see how their actions affect the people around them. They are so "me me me" that they don't notice that one of their friends is depressed and needs help, like professional help. AND some other teenagers don't care if their friends are happy. They can hold a grude for forever. Not to mention how girls can make someone pay for the stupidest thing. Anyway...it's as that song goes "High Wire Escape Artist" by: boysetsfire...."We're all sick and twisted" Your right. We are.

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