HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH MEN IN SPITE OF YOUR WEIGHT:
"I n the book “Success is not an accident.”The author wrote “Success is a planned outcome, not an accident. Success and failure are both absolutely predictable because they follow the natural and immutable law of sowing and reaping.!!! Success in life is not base on need, but on seed.” By Tommy Newberry, page 7.
Years ago, I wrote to a friend of mind in Jamaica, and inquire about a certain woman, he wrote back and trash her. I never reply to my friend again. Because what is trash to him is a lady to me. Dare him trash her!.
The way a person think about themselves, is the very core of their success or failures. If you think that you are fat and look down upon yourself, thinking that no man will ever want you. It might just happen the way you fix it in your mind. One of my fat lady friend, has a lot of admirers, but she look down upon herself, and throw away herself, because she is heavy. No body can get her to believe that she is needed.
Do you know that calling a woman fat in Jamaica, is a compliment! Fat is considered well nourish, healthy, things is going well with you. A skinny person in some places is considered sick. Some people would say: "She has worms" Look how she skinny and look like stick" It is since I came to the USA that I know that something is wrong with being fat. It is the same thing with racial problem. I never know that there was a different between whites and blacks. I did not know that there were beggars in the street in USA. Coming to the USA was one hell of a wake up for me. I keep calling women that I like fat, and I wonder why they get upset, because I was only complimenting them.
One Jamaicans proverbs say"Every hoe has its own stick" Every shoes have a foot that it can fit" You just have to find the correct shoes for the foot. You might have heard the phrase" Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" One man's trash is another man's wealth" "What is consider sweet to one man is stink to the other" Many woman who claim to be fat sometime have big bones and are not really heavy as they say. The weight that she has is her natural weight.
Women make more fuss about weight, than men. Women are more fat concuss than men. Every body cannot be slim, God made different variety of people. It is ok to try and fix your weight, but you will need to keep living. Do not just sit down and wait to die. Go out, try to get a boy friend. This book will teaches you how. Teaches you to know when a man is coming on to you, and how to respond to it. God bless, and have a good reading.
STOP DREAMING AND DO IT:
HERE WE GO:
Do not sit there and days dreaming. You can do it. You can become a nurse, a doctor, a writer, any thing you want to be. You can get that man you always wanted, and have children and grand children, just like a skinny woman. It base on a principle, and not on luck. If 10X4=40. Then 4X10 also = 40. You are going to get the same answer, because it is base on a principle, and not on game of chance.
FISHING AMONG THE WRONG GROUP OF MEN:
A woman who have the tendency to get fat should stop slimming down to attract men who love slim women. When you get fat again he leave, because slim is what he want. You should try to get men who are attracted to heavy set women. You need somebody who want you just like you are. The men who love heavy set women are out there in the same proportion as men who love slim women. The problem are: Heavy set women think ever man that is looking at them, is looking down upon them. Therefore, every signals that she get, is upsetting because of a low self esteem.
PUTTING TOO MUCH VALUE UPON THE EXTERNAL:
A woman will go out and spent $500 US on her hair style, at the same time her attitude is truly what driving men away. Women are more concern on how cute they are. However, what is cute to one man is ugly to the other. men are looking at how the woman make them feel. Her availability, sene ability, sex ability and ambitions.
DIFFERENT GROUP OF MEN:
There are different groups of men. Each group has their own values, needs and taboos. There are the looks oriented men. Mammas man. Man for hire, are mister gold digger. Sex oriented men, and the family type man. The looks orientated men goes after women who are slim. This man want a woman who is cute, he think that by being in her company, it make him look good. Mammas man, look for a woman to replace his mother. To pick up after him and wash him up. The man for hire, is looking for a woman to give him money. The sex orientated man, is looking to get his sexual need met. To keep any of these group of men you have to have what it takes to take care of their needs. If a woman heavy set and she can put out. She can easily netted a sex orientated man. If she has money she can easily netted a man for hire.
The man for hire, will stay if the woman can take care of his money need. The sex orientated man will stay if the woman can take care of his enormous sex need. These two groups of men are not looks orientated. If they get a woman that has looks it is an added bonus, but that is not what they target.
GIVING SIGNALS AND INTERCEPTING SIGNALS:
Give good signals, signals that say what your heart are saying. When I was going to collage, I propose to a girl, and for three years she dragged out the thing, always saying that she only like me as a brother. Finally, I met my wife. We been married now for more that half our life. The day when I was getting married, the other girl was rolling on the floor saying her heart has been broken. Your "No" must mean no" If you observe, you will see that prostitutes make more hit with men, than church women, because the prostitutes came out of the old mentality of hiding and seeking. " The church women mentality are. “It is you want me, me do not want you" Well! No sensible man want a woman that do not want him.
ACT LIKE YOU WANT IT AND YOU WILL GET IT:
You cannot act like you do not want something and expect to get it. A lot of men do not have any shame, and believe that persistency is love. But the educated men, and the ones that can really be of help to a woman, will quit, if they are led to believe, that you want them to butt out and stay out. They will stay out.
Women give off signals naturally without even aware of it. Men are intercepting these signals. How a woman respond to a man will determine her success with them. For example, a woman that look good will causes a man to turn his head. If he is captivated and the time is right, he will try to say something to her.
Heavy set women who are too fat conscious lost most of their intended lovers because they think when a man is looking at them, he is looking down upon them. If a man is looking, it is up to you to test the water. You will need to ask" Does it pleases you? Do you like what you saw? You will need to start a conversation. You can say" You look like my brother" You look like my first boy friend" And get a conversation going.
Proverbs 24:4-AV And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches.
KEEPING YOUR CATCH:
Men do not stay with a woman because her hair is long. Men stayed because of how the women make them feel. To keep your man you will have to be aware of other women. If you tell other women what you have at home, they will come over trying to taste what you got. Are lying to you about the man, and get you to throw him out, so they can grabbed him. You cannot be crazy head, light head, drug head, simple, hate sex and expect to keep a man. Men do not stay and hope for things to change. Men look for alternatives, it is a part of their nature to search. If he is not happy he is going to move on.
Proverbs 11:9-AV An hypocrite with [his] mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.
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DO NOT LEFT GOD OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
Proverbs 3:6 (KJV) In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Begin, continue, and end every work, purpose, and plan with God. Self-sufficiency and self-confidence have been the ruin of mankind ever since the fall. Man's sin has been to live independently of God. True religion consists of full acknowledgement of God in all human affairs (Proverbs 3:5).
CHRIST MUST DIED.
Isaiah 53:5-AV But he [was] wounded for our transgressions, [he was] bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace [was] upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:6-AV All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.
CHRIST HAD DIED FOR US.
Romans 5:6-AV For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:8-AV But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. 1 Corinthians 15:3-AV For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 1 Corinthians 15:4-AV And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: 1 Corinthians 15:5-AV And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: 1 Corinthians 15:6-AV After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. 1 Corinthians 15:7-AV After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. 1 Corinthians 15:8-AV And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
THERE IS A WITNESS.
1 John 5:8-AV And there are three that bear witness in earth, the Spirit, and the water, and the blood: and these three agree in agree.
MAN MUST BELIEVE
1John 5:13-AV These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.
MAN MUST LOOK.
Isaiah 45:22-AV Look unto me, and be ye saved, all the ends of the earth: for I [am] God, and [there is] none else.
THE SPIRIT CALL.
Revelation 22:17-AV And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is a thirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
MAN MUST CALL
. Romans 10:13-AV For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
MAN MUST COME.
Matthew 11:28-AV Come unto me, all [ye] that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:29-AV Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
Isaiah 1:18-AV Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
Hosea 6:1-AV Come, and let us return unto the LORD: for he hath torn, and he will heal us; he hath smitten, and he will bind us up. Hosea 6:2-AV After two days will he revive us: in the third day he will raise us up, and we shall live in his sight. Hosea 6:3-AV Then shall we know, [if] we follow on to know the LORD: his going forth is prepared as the morning; and he shall come unto us as the rain, as the latter [and] former rain unto the earth.
MAN MUST RECEIVE.
John 1:12-AV But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, [even] to them that believe on his name:
THERE IS NO OTHER THAT CAN GIVE SALVATION.
Acts 4:12-AV Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. Luke 19:10-AV For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost.
GOD WILL FORGIVE.
Lamentations 3:33-AV For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men. Psalms 103:13-AV Like as a father pitieth [his] children, [so] the LORD pitieth them that fear him. Psalms 103:14-AV For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we [are] dust.
SALVATION BRING A CHANGE IN PEOPLE LIFE.
I knew a person who professed to be a christians, she had the name of Jesus written on her hat, some had it written on their cars and on their doors, but not in their heart.
1 John 4:20-AV If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
St John 13:35-AV By this shall all [men] know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
PRAY THIS PRAYER AND ACCEPT JESUS AS YOUR SAVIOUR TODAY.
Lord Jesus I believe that you are the son of God, and the only way to God, and that you died on the cross for my sins and rose again from the dead. I accept you as my savior and lord today. Amen.
Now the first thing that you will need to do after getting save, is search your home and life. Any talisman, guard, are any thing that you have in your possession that represent the occult, you will need to get rid of it. Any clothing that you have that you use to wear to Satan worship, if you were going to Satan church, you need to burn it. Any books an the occult. Then you need to forgave others, and ask for fogginess of some. If you were sleeping with Jx wife, only stop. Do not go confess it, go confessing it will only bring more trouble, some thing better left bury.
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SPELLINGS AND GRAMMARS:
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