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Myth 1:

Your baby deserves two parents

 

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Myth 2:

Adoption is a gift to a family that can't have babies.

 

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Myth 3:

Another woman can be the mother of your child.

 

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Myth 4:

It's expensive raising a baby.

 

 

 

 

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Myth 5:

A mother who unselfishly places her baby for adoption....

 

 

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Your baby already has two parents. You didn't make that baby on your own.

 

 

Giving your baby to an adoption agency is not a gift. You are actually part of a baby selling/human trafficking ring. The agency is SELLING your baby to the highest bidder for a profit of 100% and you are part of that.

 

 

The minute you became pregnant you became a mother. Giving your child away for adoption or having an abortion doesn't erase that fact. You are a mother for life whether you raise that baby or not.

 

This is a true statement but not just about raising a baby. There are some many things wrong with this statement it should be banned from the adoption arena all together. It's costs money to live anyway.

First, it's expensive to provide for yourself! Raising a baby is only PART of your every day expenses not in addition to. In other words you don't have to have two paychecks to raise one baby. It doesn't hurt to have more money but you can make it on what you have.

Second, that baby has a father, make him help pay to raise your baby. He may even want to take the baby and raise it himself. The father has the right to raise his own child and he has the legal obligation to support the baby. Make him do it.

You are in a temporary situation. You will not be broke forever. Babies and kids have motivated their parents to better themselves through education and job promotion. A GOOD example of that is the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness" (Dec 2006) starring Will Smith about Chris Gardners bumpy start at raising his son. Today Mr. Gardners a millionaire and seems to be a really nice guy. His son only gained through his dads experience. But Mr. Gardner's a hero for hanging on to his son and believing in himself. You can be the same, a hero to your child.

Think about it. You have to put a roof over your head so that part is already taken care of, it's not an additional expense.

 

A mother who unselfishly raises her child is a better person and has taken into consideration her childs needs and welfare above her own, any adopter or any agency whose motive is to make money off your baby. You are no different than any adopter. They are human, they make mistakes and they are not perfect just like you. The only difference between you and an adopter? You can give birth and life to a human being. You, too, can raise the baby.

Adopters have the same problems you will have. They have to learn to share their money, they have to worry about providing a roof over the babies head and make sure the baby has food, just like you. Every thing you do THEY have to do. They may have more money but raising a baby, whether rich or not, has it's ups and downs. You have the advantage because you can give the baby his TRUE heritage.

 

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