...a gift you are giving some one. You are giving a piece of you away. That is a human being you are GIVING away or to some one who is SELLING the baby.

....co-parenting. Once your baby is born you no longer exist. That means the SECOND your baby is born you are a nothing. As a matter of fact while you are pregnant you are only seen from the neck to mid thigh, the rest of you is only tolerated until after birth, then you're FORGOTTEN. You are no more than an incubator.

...EASY. It's the hardest thing a woman can ever do. It does not go away, there will always be pain. Spare yourself the pain, keep your baby.

...a noble move on your part. You are not a hero for giving your child away. You are depriving your child of her/his rights to know who she/he is.

...a way to supplement your income. If you have no intention of placing your baby for adoption, don't pursue it. Adoption isn’t a game and doing things like this make future adoptions hard for all involved. Adoption is hard enough, nobody wants to get ripped off.

...saving a baby. When adopters say they adopt to save a baby I'm not sure what they are saving a baby from, it's parent?

...very painful,and you never recover from it.

...takes away a childs right to know her/his family.

...Gut wretching, heart breaking and life changing decision, that can be avoided.

...PERMANENT! It's the loss of a child that you will NEVER raise.

...the SELLING of a human being to another human being. Also known as slavery.

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