For those considering marriage or a relationship....Something to think about?
		I’ve Learned I’ve learned-  that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved.  The rest is up to them. I’ve learned- that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. I’ve learned-  that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I’ve learned-  that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts. I’ve learned- that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do. I’ve learned-   that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I’ve learned-that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. I’ve learned-  that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may b e the last time you see them.. I’ve learned- that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. I’ve learned- that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I’ve learned-that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. I’ve learned-that heroes are the people who do what has to be done, when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I’ve learned-that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up. I’ve learned-that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel. I’ve learned-that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have. I’ve learned-that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated. I’ve learned-  that you should never tell a child their dreams are crazy or impossible. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed you. I’ve learned- that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I’ve learned-that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief. I’ve learned-  that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I've learned that I love u my Mija and will never forget u nor replace u, im so sorry that my words of saying sorry r not enough, I understand ur fear and hurt, pain and dissappoinment, and I understand  that I must somehow prove my sorrow and sincerity but I wonder how? I beg u for another chance..not bcuz I deserve it but bcuz we were meant to be! and always will be .... I have learned to love you and you only! I’ve learned-that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to give...