October 29, 30, & 31,1999

Well, maybe not so much spooky... but fun and definately sexy. Halloween should always have a bit of a sexual element to it. I do recall saying back in the first journal entry that sex in a graveyard on Halloween would be rather nice. :)
Well, I didn't do that, but I think I did something equally as good; perhaps even better. I'll start with Friday, just because I'm anal that way. :)

Actually, maybe I'll start with thursday the 28th, even though that isn't really a part of Halloween, but I neglected to come on and do an entry for it. Look, i haven't had enough coffee and cigarettes yet this morning, and last night... well... you'll find out about last night.

Thursday, Elyse got her new car. It's quite nice; a Mercury Mystique. She's happy to finally have a car again. So am I, actually. While I love to drive, some nights I just don't feel like driving all the way back from Marlboro at 2 am. Also, it's better because if she and I want to do something during the week, I don't have to get up at the butt crack of dawn to take Rob to work so I can have his car for the day. So Thursday night after she got the car, we met at the Saint to watch Leidersdorff (I can't believe I haven't mentioned them yet. We go see them every thursday night. Bleh. I'm retarded.) It was pretty cool, we had a lot of fun. Elyse has this thing for seeing Jon (the lead singer) jump up and down while he's playing, so she made a sign that said, "Jump, Jon, Jump!" He did. ;) thanx to Jayne for the pics, BTW. So that was pretty fun. Kieran invited us over to his place after, so we hung out and watched this hilarious video that Kieran made one night when he and Elyse were hanging out... She was really drunk and got naked on camera. She was totally embarrassed, which I found hilarious. It was very cute. So, onto Friday....

In the early afternoon, Elyse came to pick Liam and I up so we could go clean Kieran's apartment. He was supposed to give her a hundred bucks to do it, but he was nowhere to be found all day. We left to go to the mall so we could get the finishing touches for our halloween costumes. When we were done, we picked Rob up and went back to Kieran's to get Elyse's money. He wasn't there, so she was pretty pissed off. We hung around there for a while waiting for him, but he never showed. So we went to the Inkwell for coffee, and in trying to decide what to do, we came up with the idea of going to Stars And Bars, which is a strip club in Long Branch. Shockingly enough, we had fun there. It was very much a dive; not nearly as classy as Delilah's, but the people were friendly, and the music was really good. Turns out they have an amateur night, so Elyse wants to go do it. I'm sure you'll find out how that went by the end of the week. :) You couldn't pay me enough to get up there and do that; at least not until I lose all my pregnancy weight. We got out of there around 2am, and went back to Kieran's. Elyse had a key, so we just walked right in. Kieran was... ahem... in the middle of something, if you catch my drift. But Elyse didn't care much; she wanted her money. Can't say I blame her. The girl Kieran had over there seemed pretty pissed, but she kept her mouth shut, which was probably wise of her. :)
Saturday, I worked all day, and started getting ready to go out as soon as I got home. Dying my hair proved to be a waste of time; the stuff I got didn't do a damn thing to my hair. The catholic schoolgirl outfit didn't quite work, either... I wore a very conservative-looking green plaid skirt, a gray button up shirt with cargo pockets on the breast and sleeves, a tie with yellow submarines on it, and black fishnet thigh highs. I was the "disobedient and rebellious" schoolgirl. I think I looked like ass, but Elyse and Rob assure me I looked good. I still disagree. Yet another reason why I need to shed all this extra weight that suddenly appeared on me. Anyway, we trekked into Manhattan to go to Paddles, an S&M club. It was not what we were expecting when we got there. I had the impression that it would be like a goth dance club with bondage equipment and people scening around. Well, It was, just without the "goth dance club" part. each room was set up differently, with heavy-duty bondage gear hanging from the cieling, attached to the walls, et cetera. This was the real deal, and being as inexperienced in the whole scene aspect of BDSM as I am, I was pretty surprised. I also felt very amateur, since everything BDSM-related I've ever done has been in the privacy of my bedroom, or the semi-privacy of online chat rooms, and it was quite obvious to me that the folks occupying the club were very experienced. I discovered a few things about myself last night. I am not the painslut I thought I was, for starters. And I definately enjoy being dominant much more than being submissive.  When we arrived, we didn't know what to do. It was pretty empty, and we were expecting something closer to what we were familiar with when it comes to going to "clubs". Elyse said she'd tie me up and spank me; I was, of course, opposed to this idea becuase submitting in any way to a female does absolutely nothing for me; in fact, it turns me off completely. So she said, "Well, you guys can spank me." Moments later, her head and wrists were trapped in a stock, and her ass was being tortured by Rob and I. In front of a fairly large audience, no less. This was very cool. Rob and I were getting to act out our long-time fantasy of having someone under us both. This scene was a lot of fun (pics coming VERY soon...) however, after we walked around a while and checked out some other scenes, Elyse was itching to be tied up and beaten again. So we brought her into this very 1800's-looking room, and bound her wrists over her head. I blindfolded her, and Rob and I took turns molesting her and beating her. Her ass was literally black and blue when we were done. Rob was using a wooden paddle on her, and it was a bit too much for her. When we were done, I dressed her and gave her a back massage. It was very nice, I enjoyed it a lot. Now, of course, at this point Rob wanted to give me a whirl. I was uneasy about it, mainly because of all the people, and seeing how much pain many of the submissives there could take, I knew I was going to look like a lightweight. I can take pain, but I don't like to only get spanked. I want the whole package. Actually, I prefer being dominated. it's the mental aspect that turns me on more than the physical, and this wasn't really a forum for D/s, it was more for S&M. So I didn't enjoy my scene so much. Rob had Elyse spank me a couple times, and more than anything, it irritated me. I can't handle being dominated by a woman. I don't like it at all. So shortly after that, we left. All in all, it was a lot of fun, and I'd like to go back again. As far as today, not much has happened. I slept late, and took care of the baby for a while. I have to go to work soon, and I'll prolly spend my night there watching bad horror movies. :)

pictures from Oct. 30 coming never. sorry, folks. :P