Hypocrite is defined as “One who acts a false part or makes false professions.” If you either fail to attend worship services or attend worship services because of other people and not to expand your relationship with God, then maybe you need to "remove the beam" from your own eye, first. Church is both a community and a private matter. However, the community portion is because you are drawn together with others for affirmation. The private part is just between you and God (as it is for your neighbor).