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You know that deep inside, there's still the silent longing for things to change and for the wind to blow where you want it to. You may have realized he has his eyes and heart set on someone else, but you have accepted your fate? The only way to ease the crushing pain of learning how to forget someone you love is to accept the bitterness of reality. As long as your heart belongs to that person, then remembering will always hurt. I feel that what your mind wants to do, your heart dictates otherwise. The inner conflict is the very reason that makes forgetting utterly difficult. we cannot forget someone we love. This is the basic formula... for as long as our hearts still dream of moments of togetherness with someone and getting that person out of our bloodstream is almost an impossibility. Change doesn't happen overnight. The process of getting that person out in our system will not be as simple as it seems because you love him. When this loves fades away, then everything that will remind you of him will go with it. If you have learned this wonderful feeling, you could also try to unlearn it in time. It will be difficult but if you honestly believe that it is the best thing to do, then it is worth the pain and the tears. This is the time to set your heart free. You cannot be a prisoner of this love forever. Every tear that falls in your eyes is a silent expression of your feelings. Pain is what makes us a stronger person, when we cry in agony; we get a deeper understanding of life. When we swallow bitterness, we realize that we cannot always be happy. Remember that most of us are unhappy because we desire what isn't ours. Only we become contented and thankful for what God has blessed us, we can be truly free from all our senseless and entangled emotions that impison us... |
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