AC/DC
Person who
enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual.
ADULT
Euphemism for
pornographic.
ALL
CULTURES
Person or
couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)
AMERICAN
CULTURE
Man on top,
the missionary position.
ANAL SEX
Anal
intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture.
ANALINGUS
Oral contact
or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking
of the other.
ANIMAL
TRAINING
Sexual
activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality
ARTS
Euphemism for
fetishes; Cultures
B&D or
B/D
Bondage and
discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering
discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her
"slave". (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
BBW
Big Beautiful
Woman; Referring to women that may not be their "ideal" weight,
but are comfortable with the size that they are..
BESTIALITY
(see ANIMAL
TRAINING)
BI
Bisexual:
Versatile (see AC/DC)
BI-CURIOUS
A Male or
Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
BIZARRE
Unusual
sexual desires
BONDAGE
A sexual
fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps
are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person
doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person
being bound is considered "submissive."
CAN ENTERTAIN
Advertiser willing to invite others
to their home for swinging.
CAN TRAVEL
Advertiser willing to travel to your
home to swing.
CANING
A spanking fetish employing a light
cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
CHEATING
Sexual activity with others without
spouse's knowledge and/or consent.
CLEAN
Hygienic; Free of sexually
transmitted diseases.
CLOSED DOOR
(see CLOSED SWINGING)
CLOSED SWINGING
Sexual interaction among couples
using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of
privacy.
CLOSET SWINGER
A person who hides the fact that
he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)
COUPLE
In swinging, a man and a woman. May
be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going
relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
CPL
(see COUPLE)
CUCKOLD
While the originally meaning is the
husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a
husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it.
It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is
forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different
people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people
using the word in order to clarify the definition.
CULTURE
Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.
CUNNILINGUS
Stimulation of the vagina and
clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the
teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE)
DILDO
An artificial penis, usually made of
rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the
anus.
DIRECTOR
The term used to describe the
principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally
the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for
party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a
Manager.
DISCIPLINE
A sexual fetish in which one partner
dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical
punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to
mild spankings to painful beatings.
DISCREET OR DISCRETION
Asking those who write or call to
exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer
phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
DOCILE
Willing to receive bondage and/or
discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
DOMESTIC TRAINING
Submissive obedience to household
chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
DOMINANT
A sexual partner in control of a
willing submissive partner.
ENGLISH CULTURE
Sexual stimulation from spanking or
caning
ENTERTAIN
(see CAN ENTERTAIN)
EXHIBITIONIST
Behavior in which an individual
experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body.
Enjoys being watched.
F
Female
FELLATIO
Sexual stimulation of the penis by
the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
FETISH
Sexual arousal and pleasure through
use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
FLAGELLATION
Sexual stimulation derived from
pain, usually whipping or spanking.
FRENCH CULTURE
Oral-genital sexual activity; see
Fellatio, Cuntilingus
FUN AND GAMES
Euphemism for sexual activity.
GAY
A homosexual person, male or female.
A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
GBM
Gay Black Male
GENEROUS
Refers to money for sex.
GREEK CULTURE
Anal-penile intercourse
GROUP ROOM
Room set aside for group sex,
generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is
prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).
GROUP SEX
Swinging; Sexual activity between
three or more people.
GWM
Gay White Male
HARD CORE
A swing party or swing engagement
where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
HARD SWINGING
(see HARD CORE)
HEAD
Oral-genital sexual activity;
"Giving head" (see French)
HEDONIST
Someone who lives for pleasure.
HETEROSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the
opposite sex.
