This web page is dedicated to help Me!
I am not very good at asking for nor, am I very good with sharing my problems. But, in this case I have no choice. So, here goes.
In August, 2002, my not so nice boyfriend woke up one day and decided to inform me that he was no longer "in love" with me and that the relationship was over. I was flabbergasted to say the least. How can someone just wake up and say this to another person after spending 6 years of their lives together?
Not only this but after buying a condo together and have spent the last 4 years living in it. The condo, which we agreed that we would share is in his name, because at the time my credit wasn't any good. But, he always promised that if anything happened I would get my share of it. Low and behold he won't sell it and says I am to blame for the financial stress we are under. Truthfully, we both did it like any other relationship.
Now ,he's threatening eviction. What choice do I make my car that badly needs fixing so I can get a deceit job or a place to live for me and all my animals?
I have been out of work for a multiple of reasons:
1. The unavailability of jobs. The rate of unemployment in Florida is 3x higher than national average. I am competing with all the computer techies that have lost their jobs due to layoffs or other reasons. I'm sure it's like this everywhere but, not only that the immigration in Florida is 10x higher than any other state. With these two combined it does not make the job market successful.
2. In March of last year, I had a brush with death due to a suicide attempt and a bad bout of depression that left me struggling for months. I neither received help or support from my "boyfriend" this just drove me deeper into a depression and made it much harder for me to get out from under that black cloud.
3. Two weeks ago my transmission in my car died. I have an older car, 1985 Cutlass Salon, that I love dearly and will not part with. It will cost roughly between $350-$500 to get it fixed. Money which I do not have.
It is so bad in my house right now, I wouldn't allow my worst enemy to live here. I still live at my ex's only because I can't move. I don't have the money. He's miserable and mean. We barely speak to one another. When he does speak to me he only screams, yells, points out I don't have a job, calls me names, hangs up the phone on me, tells me to get a life, and more.... Words I can't repeat here, which I am sure you can use your imagination.
I am no way a slacker, I have worked since I was 10 years old. I had a job, but only for two months. The doctors thought it was improper for me to continue to work for the company because of my severe Asthma. I had to leave. Right now I am delivering Flyers for 2 different companies, I am doing this on my bike. Just so I can save for my transmission and move.
I've had 4 friends who are very dear, offer me places to live. But, again they are in other states and I can't get there due to lack of funds.
I do not have any family. I was a foster child all my life and have been on my own since I was 16 years old and have made it this far.
Despite all of this, I still take care of my 4 cats, 2 parrots and 17 homeless cats they are probably the very reasons I'm still sane.
I have spent my whole life helping others and have not once asked help back. I've given more to charities than I can count pennies, I've given street bums brand new gloves off my hands, jackets, money, food and blankets in the dead of winter, I've paid for strangers tolls on the turnpikes, and countless other acts of kindness. I enjoy doing it. It gives me a satisfaction in my heart knowing I helped someone.
But, now I'm the one who needs help. Just a little to get out the sticky situation that I am in.
I'm not asking for much, dimes and nickels add up quick. I can't take something for free. I must payback everyone who is willing to help.Please, include your name and address.
Please, just consider it.
Donations can be made through: Paypal account: t2sell2u@aol.com
Or by mail: I need a new life- Get outta Dodge quick
c/o Rose Webster
6655 W Broward Blvd. #204
Plantation, FL 33317
Thank you, I will keep you all update on any status that I have. If you don't donate, there are a lot of links on this site, buy, sell or search...
UPDATE: 2/15 $250.00 and mounting. THANKS all who have donated so far. My friends are wonderful.