I used
to have an odd paragraph about my "pet peeves". I have learned that a better way to
determine what you don't like is to find out what you do like. The best way to do this is to observe
your own actions and lifestyle patterns.
I don't
smoke or do drugs, and it seems that I tend to associate with people that
are the same way. Of course there
are exceptions, but for the most part at least the "no drugs"
clause has held true. As a word of
advice to all of you, it has been my experience that negotiating your own
health, safety, or values to accommodate others' actions or choices usually
gets you nowhere. If you call them
"party favors", you may want to re-think how you view your extracurricular
activities. Just
my opinion.
I'm an open
minded person and I don't judge others for the choices they make. I don't like to be lied to at all. Don't lie to me. I have a knack for reading people and
knowing the truth. I've been told I
can read minds. I'm a nice guy, but
push me too far and "strong, angry man" will come out of the
cave.
I don't
like for people to beat around the bush.
Be brutally honest, tell me exactly what you want, tell me exactly
what you think, and the whole process will be done much more quickly and
efficiently than if you try to cut corners and spare feelings. If you don't like me, just say so. I hate it when people say one thing and
they mean another.
And So, my peeves are pretty much just when people lie to
me. Being honest is so much easier.
