The Guardian text
If you know who wrote this and where to find it, I would appriciate you letting us know so we can give credit where credit is due.. I was given this many many years ago and still think it is one of the best works I have read. SirTalon <Guardian`> The Dominant - Written with a Dom in mind, but appropriate for a Domme also <Guardian`> Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest gift of all. He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift. <Guardian`> He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding dominant, he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character. <Guardian`> In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure. <Guardian`> To win his submissive's mind, body, and soul, he knows he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must always show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction. <Guardian`> He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his lady's honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on. <Guardian`> He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there is no inferiority in those differences. <Guardian`> When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without a good reason. When he does it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand. <Guardian`> He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use pain to extend bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights. <Guardian`> He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they. <Guardian`> He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out of the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to him. <Guardian`> He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit, and soul with a little help from rope, paddle, and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds. <Guardian`> From web site: http://home.mem.net/~sassy2u
