Hello I am Tanya, welcome to my world. This site was
built by me but it is largely not about me at all. I do not feel that I am important
enough to warrant a website about myself alone. I wanted to help others if I could in some
small way.
I wanted to build a website that would inspire those dealing
with Gender Dysphoria aswell as provide information that they have found difficult to find
elsewhere. a site to educate and enlighten.
If you are Transgendered or a relative of someone
struggling with Transgenderism. Here you will find your answers and
information everything from what is Gender Dysphoria to how it is treated and why.
Links Support Groups, Gender Identity Clinics, Psychologist's. Psychiatrists.
Plastic Surgeons, even information on Hormone Therapy.
You may be dealing with a Doctor whom has never dealt with
this before? Here you will find Hundreds of Doctors all listed here for you---and
updated constantly!
My Experience has been, that Doctors can be and often
are just as prejudiced , Narrow Minded and even Bigoted as other people. Often will
they not even discuss this issue with other doctors,Often turning away transgendered
patients seeking treatment to find treatment else where.
Leaving patients alone and desperate to often treat
themselves, by any means that they can find. Often this leads to depression, hopelessness,
feelings of isolation and worthlessness, This added with the already existing feelings of
entrapment, anxiety, depression, guilt, is added despair...the loss of all
hope--Hope is all that keeps most of us going from day to day--- Hope is the life
preserver of the transsexual person---The Hope that someday we will be whole normal women,
with whole normal lives.
Despair, is the utmost feeling we have this along with the
discrimination and difficulty in the job market for transsexuals. Suddenly have to
chose between eating and paying for counciling...wondering how they will pay for
precriptions, rent, clothes, Etc Etc...Because suddenly they have no one not even a job
reference.
For some this Leads to prostitution and work in
pornography, just to survive and make it someday to a normal life as the Woman they have
always been and wanted so desperately to become.
Choosing to do this, is not a whim or a fantasy, No one goes
through this process lightly...It is a real birth defect that we seek to be treated as
anyone with a birth defect would...Ours is that our physical gender is wrong.. Know one
can or should have to live a life of pretending, lying, and acting, hiding whom they are
from everyone including those that profess to love them...Nor should we be so selfish as
to hurt those that we love.
But almost always we find ourselves alone, everyone we knew
gone from our lives. Unwilling to even think of acknowledging whom we are and want to be.
So we must make new lives and new friends. Sometimes If we are very lucky new families,
Sometimes if we are even luckier we sometimes get to keep the old ones.
So
you may have a better experience than I have had, here you will find the handful of
doctors that will listen and that can help you. The mission of my World is to end Ignorance,
Stop The Violence , Stop the Tolerance of
hate, Stop The Justification and prelificaton of Ignorance
and Hate in our World! |