most commonly referred to as pam, i am 24 y/o college drop-out and an assistant store manager for a wireless communications company. i currently reside in a small city in massachusetts with my husband, steve.
i am not a pessimist, rather a realist.
i am a procrastinator.
i have a tattoo of my name in korean on my left shoulderblade. i have been contemplating about adding more to it; perhaps some organic design. will most definitely get a second tattoo, a feline drawing to declare my adoration for cats. possible location: upper arm or hip. most of my spare time is filled with working and reading. some favorites are: the chosen, inherit the wind, zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance, night, 1984, lila, fear & loathing in las vegas. i am currently reading "walden" by henry david thoreau.
listening to music is another favorite pastime. such as: tori amos, juliette and the licks, yeah yeah yeahs, portishead, bjork, the pixies, bikini kill, discount, piebald, the raincoats, the clampdown, le tigre, smashing pumpkins, tracy + the plastics, ani difranco, the kills, discount, peaches, morningwood, garbage, cherry poppin' daddies, the clash, drain sth, good riddance, the juliana theory, fugazi, fiona apple, positive state, propagandhi, weezer, aha, joan jett, sarah mclachlan, nirvana, the vapors, the cure, afi, the distillers, anti-flag, red hot chili peppers, rancid, moby, live, violent femmes, naked aggression, nin, the cranberries, led zeppelin, radiohead, banco de gaia, millencolin the mad capsule markets, curve, the white stripes, modest mouse, sublime, wizo, social distortion, h2o, tool, the profits, jewel, the doors, the go-gos, etc...
my mouse roofus died. a mouse to remember. it was a sad time when she made her untimely death but my folks got me a cat, spazz, on new year's eve ['97]. pet my pussy. a new addition has been added to the family, sid vicious, an adorable white feline with a stub tail and mohawk.
i have an unhealthy obsession with felines now that i have my own little bundle of fur to adore. i'm constantly "oooing" and "aaahing" and squealing with glee whenever the cats act cute [this annoys my dad very much], which is all the time because i think everything they do is adorable. i know i'm going to be one of those weird cat ladies who has ten thousand cats and celebrates their birthdays with clowns and cake and ice cream and balloons.
i am an atheist. if you believe in superior beings, fine, good for you. why atheism?
likes and dislikes
*likes* art, music, rad people, my fiance steve, my kitties/babies, my comrades, photography [my major once i have $ to go back], philosophy club, promotions at work, tact, my bed and its wonderful smell, being in love, cuddling, rice, snickerdoodle coffee, men's cologne, tattoos, piercings, owning a car, bands that don't suck, hugs, putting the key into the door of MY apartment, hot showers, electricity, meeting random people at the train station & finding out they knew my brother in high school, ingenuity, sex, japanimation, atheism, legos™, sundays [time and a half, baby!]blocks, sleeping, licking the spoon after making whipped cream, thrifting, boston, getting mail, sewing, designing clothes, visiting old friends, yard sales, independence, soccer, sex, the disney channel, the home&garden channel, the three stooges, wallace and gromit, confidence minus the "air of superiority", kickboxing, human decency, bruce lee, sex, jackie chan, charles baudelaire [the french poet], shows, my new iMac G5, painting, compassion, sex, "please"'s and "thank you"'s, sunrises/sunsets, poetry, sculpture, creating art i can be proud of, falling asleep in someone's arms, autumn, spring, summer, driving, ultimate frisbee, people watching, surmounting a hurdle that seemed impossible at the time, people that go the extra mile, sex, thunderstorms accompanied by lightning, going to the dentist, reading, making new friends, catching a glimpse of what it may be like to walk in someone else's shoes
*dislikes* violence, boy "bands", crappy bands, mean people, people that think they are entitled to free phones b/c they pay a whopping $40 a month, paying car insurance, medical bills w/ no health insurance, when the car breaks down for no reason, exams, conformity, censorship, warm milk, sexism, religion, superficiality, stereotypes, those that are unable to tell time thus constantly arriving late, assumptions, mailboxes, misinterpretation, hatred, whiners, liars, winter/cold weather, getting out of bed, getting in trouble, bubonic plague, Windoze, people that don't flush, society, people w/ bad breath that insist on talking 2in. in front of my face, high-maintenance cappuccino drinkers, red meat, late trains, mailboxes, smelly feet, yellow toe nails, hickies, puking, being sick, white supremists, leaky pens, high school, rent-a-cops with napoleon complexes, overly priced merchandise, broken objects, telemarketers, "courtesy" calls, lame tattoos, rigor mortis, squash and asparagus [the most disgusting vegetables known to man], racism, homophobes, mondays, tuesdays, wednesdays, thursdays, narcissists, pigheadedness, road rage, trendies, extreme nationalism, militarism, dead batteries, kids that pee in pools, messy fruits, the gov't, capitalism, the hole in my wall, drawn-on eyebrows, smokers, burning one's tongue on scalding liquid, those that are selfish, toilet mold, pro wrestling, screaming babies and children, kkk, baywatch, exploitation, bible thumpers/humpers, paint-by-number kits [they are inherently evil], people that insist on walking in the street when a sidewalk is readily available, bad drivers, the smell of burnt hair, vomit, toothpaste and orange juice, terrorism, the events of september 11'01, stress, getting lost in a state forest at night, bills, falling behind, mental blocks, rude cell phone users, drunk drivers, rude customers, people w/ no perspective, incorrect bank statements, glorification of drugs/booze, those that try too hard, neighbors that play sucky music at 8am, speed traps, excess amounts of strong perfume/cologne, red light when no one's coming, the fact that my dislikes list is much longer than my likes list