Brenda

I am looking to find friendship, being the basis of any real relationship, possibly leading to more. I am not fake, honesty only, just me, the real me and I love to laugh. I don't do the bar scene, I am considered laid back, I like the slow life, mostly hanging at home, I have 5 acres here, or somewhere else in nature. I have 5 kids that keep me busy, but their dad lives 5 miles from me and sees them as often as he can. I pretty much have it together and know what direction I'm headed. I have my own business and I do it my way, I won't get rich like this, but my goal is to help people and I am suceeding in that. Trust is what I like for people to feel when they spend time with me and I get proof of that when the referrals come in. I need the guy in my life to accept me for who I am and also know who he is. I'd like for him to have a life and long to have someone compliment it, not need someone to give him a life because I can't do that. Interesting conversation is important to keep me interested. I know how to appreciate the smallest of things and looking for someone that can do the same. Happiness is the journey, not the destination.

I work with computers, helping people find what they want and need. I help them understand how to use it and fix it when it gets sick. I love sci fi and Stephen King. Being outside in the wide openness of our earth, looking into the sky. Being with my children, they grow up so fast. Roller Skating, getting lost on back roads (they always come out somewhere, well, except in WV), gazing at the stars, just plain ole relaxing in my yard.