In Memory of..
Brandon Andrew Wolfe
July 11, 1977-September 9, 2000

Brandon

Suicide.

This word strikes terror
into all of us.
We all know of someone or have someone we love
who have experienced the shock and trauma of suicide.
And if we don't we live in fear
of it when we hear it.
Suicide is a dark mystery to the
best of us.

Unless you have been there there is NO way to
know the depth and reach
of Suicide.
I myself have lost two friends to Suicide.
AND that was TOO close
to cope with.
I cannot imagine losing any of my
family this way.
Much less
MY child.
My CHILD.

I am simply the fingers on
this site. I am the html handler,
The typist.
It is my Pleasure and my Privelage to
be so too.
It is for my Friend Pat,
and her family.
Brandon was Pats much loved nephew.
And his parents much loved son.
So for Pat, her family,
(( Brandons parents))
((his brothers)) and Zach..
and a friend of mine too-Chocolatepumper,
I dedicate my part of this work.
It goes without saying
.....FOR AND TO......
Brandon Wolfe.

This is Brandons Site.

It is Pats goal to have as many LINKS
on this site as we can find
for either the lost soul looking for help
or the family looking for help for a loved one
OR the family who have experienced
this tragedy.

If you have found us looking for help
PLEASE PLEASE dont' stop here.
Call an emergency room. TELL them who you are.
Call a Dr. Call family. Call a friend. Call a stranger if you must..
Call ANYONE BUT CALL someone.
YOU MATTER. LIFE MATTERS. THIS MATTERS.

And this site WILL be up in the next two days.

LINKS

Suicide

A.F.S.P

Suicide.Com

For ((ChocolatePumper))

Brandon and his Son

In Memory...

I'll lend you for a little while,
a child of mine, he said.
For you to love him while he lives,
and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years or
twenty-two or three.
But will you till I call him back, take care of
him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you, and should his stay
be brief, you'll have his lovely memories as solace
for your grief.
I cannont promise he will stay, since all
from earth return.
But there are lessons down there, I want
this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over,
In my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs, that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you.
Now, will you give him all your love,
not think the labor vain, not hate me when I come
to call to take him home again?
I fancied that I've heard them say
Dear Lord, thy will be done.

For all the joy thy child shall bring,
the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him
while we may.
And for the happiness we've known,
forever grateful stay.
But should the Angels call for him, much sooner
than we've planned.
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and
try to understand.

With All of Our Love,
Forever
Betty..Jackie..
and ((Zach))

" And if I go, while you are still here
...Know that I live on, vibrating to a different measure.
behind a veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me, so you must have faith,that
I wait for the time when we can soar together again
both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest and when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart
...I will be there."

Tom Clancy

GOD BLESS THE USA