The Yeba!Logbook Part2 presents...

Mga Kachuvahan ni Melay

Thoughts to Live By Part2

x it is not the nails that held Christ to the Cross, but His love for you and me. x

x the real art of conversation is not saying the right words at the right time; it's leaving words unsaid at the very tempting moment. x

x it's hard to love, it's hard to leave, it can hurt us, and make us believe, but why give in? why fall? because love is blind, and crazy after all... x

x love and infatuation are two entirely different emotions: love is other-oriented, while infatuation is self-centered. x

x to be a star, you must shine your own light, follow your own path, and don't worry about darkness, for that is when the stars shine brightest! x
 

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Dear Marnie,

    Falling in love is a great thing. But sometimes, when we end up feeling hurt, we wish that love had not dawned on us. We wonder how something that is supposed to be so wonderful can bring so many tears and heartaches.

    Unrequited love is the most painful experience in loving. You will never find happiness is the arms of someone who doesn't love you. If you put up with one-sided love, you will be miserable. Nobody can make you fall out of love except yourself. Maawa ka na sa sarili mo. Are you willing to experience more pain just because you are resigned to the idea that he is the right one for you (and to the idea that even once the feeling WAS mutual)? You've suffered long enough. You have to do something to stop torturing yourself.

    The more you dwell on your fantasies of having Francis as your boyfriend, the more difficult it is to let go. The fantasy causes you to hold on to your love and adhere to the notion that there will be a happy ending for you two. You will never forget Francis unless you let go of that dream. Concentrate on your career. Go out and meet new friends. By waiting for Francis, you are shutting out all the other men who might be potential partners for you. Even if Francis epitomizes the perfect guy, if it's not meant to be, wala ka nang magagawa dun. But if you are really meant to be together (as you claim, soulmates kayo), things will fall into place. Perhaps, he is the "right one," but it's not yet the "right time". Kung kayo... KAYO. In God's chosen time.