It all started with a glance. I later met
him by chance on an internet site and was instantly drawn. There's
something magical about Cory. Something that's so deep within
him, you have to work very hard to see itbut it's there, it's
impossible to miss.
At first sight, he looks rather average. Blonde and a little
on the short side, he looks just like that stranger you saw on
the bus last weekperhaps it was him. It's his eyes that give
him away though; bright crystal blue in color, offsetting the
harsh black of the pupil. Beneath those eyes, hidden away from
society and the judgment of the human race is another person.
Another person who loves to talk and listen, a person whose mind
is filled with "things that make other people's minds spin",
as he once told me.
And it's true. The things he thinks about would make the typical
person's mind spin. We went on in that conversation to discuss
who and where God was, if we as humans have purpose on earth,
the power of love, the size of our little world in the grand scheme
of things, and the possibility of life "somewhere out there."
He's not you average guy once you get to know him. He lives
by one word and one word alone: honor. Life is nothing without
honor. He plays video games in his free time. He believes that
our point on earth is to have no point. He's multi-talented in
the musical department, playing the guitar, piano, saxophone,
and singing when he can. He loves animals but has never ridden
a horse. And he believes that nothing, not even the Lord himself,
can separate or stop true love.
Aside from being deep, he has a sense of humor as well. During
one of our conversations he quoted Albert Einstein. "Love,
it seems is like a bridge. The bridge, if built well on the foundations
of caring, honest, and loving mortar, will hold well against any
feud of nature. Though there is but one thing that can take it
all down. Doubt is the ultimate rival of love because it can single
handedly tear the bridge down to nothing. It is like a crack in
the bridge and with time will make it buckle and fall. There is
only one cure to this deadly crack. To fill up with the mortar
of true love." It was so true! I loved it the minute I
heard it, but realized that I hadn't ever read it or heard it
before. I quickly scanned my father's book of Einstein quotes
for it and asked him where he had gotten it.
"Ohwell I pretty much just made it up."
"Excuse me?"
"Yeah, Einstein didn't really say anything like that, but
it made me sound smart didn't it?"
It's moments like that when you can't help but laugh. He tangles
you up in a meaningful conversation, and then proceeds to turn
it around with a random comment, action, or quote. The best part
though is the fact that he can make a judgment call as to when
such a thing is appropriate, or when you just need someone to
listen.
The most magnetizing thing about him is something one cannot
explain on paper. There's a connection with him that makes you
feel almost insane. You suddenly feel that you are able to tell
him anything and everything about yourself, without the fear of
being ostracized for who you really are. He accepts you for you
and offers his advice when you need it most. He tells you the
truth with no sugar coating whether you want to hear it or not.
You can't escape his words, but for some reason, you don't want
to.
All in all, Cory proves that what you see isn't always what you
get. Judging books by their covers only lets you miss out on
true meaning. Humans are the same way. You find the neatest
people in the most unsuspected places. It's all in how you look
at it. Or maybe you just need to look in their eyes.