Grave sites
Below is the grave of Eleanor (Stewart) Thatcher and Bart Thatcher.   They are buried in Church Hill Cemetary, Reedsville Pennslyvania.  I have not found either of their parents graves yet.  This picture was taken near Memorial Day, May 2002.  You can see the G.A.R. maker and flag on Bart's grave.  His stone says "Co. E. 76 Pa. Inf".  Eleanor's stone says "Wife of Bart Thatcher died Oct. 5, 1892 age 71 years, 9 months and 4 days"  It is hard to read the bottom inscription on her stone.  I believe it says "Her end was peace".
Their son, Bartholomew and his wife Sarah Klingman's grave is below.  Sarah and Bartholomew are buried in Woodlawn cemetary in Milroy Pennsylvania.  Their daughter Mary is buried with them but does not have a marker. 
Bart and Sarah's obits are below.