Thirdwaver
Hey guys, before I waste a bunch of your time, please note that I’m primarily
into non-bears. If you consider yourself a bear or others do, I’m sorry to say
that it is pretty likely we wouldn’t share an attraction though I’m flattered
that you thought I was intriguing enough to click :).
So Who Am I?
I wish it were so simple to describe a
person that a single web page such as this could do the job of describing me.
Unfortunately, this will have to serve as the book cover.
I’m a very positive guy who sees the world much differently than the mainstream
in many areas though I’d stop short of saying that I’m a rebel for the sake of
being rebellious. There’s a time and place. I tend to root for the underdog
in almost every endeavor because I’ve often been that underdog and know how
important the support can be.
Underlying just about every one of my decisions and actions is love, trust, and
honesty. I’m a big believer in those things and, in that way, I’m very
predictable. I would ask that those be guiding principles for you too if we
were to hang out. I suppose the worst thing you could call me would be a
hypocrite since I spend a great deal of effort practicing what I preach.
I have good friends and am always on the lookout for more. Each of my friends
has a way of drawing out different sides of my personality and showing me the
world through different filters. Some of my friends are serious, some just
clown around with me and the best ones do both.
On warm, clear days you are likely to find me either riding the countryside on
my motorcycle (solo or with a friend or two) or with a few close friends out on
my boat. I’m not much of a wakeboarder, but I’m a helluva driver and kicking
it out in the sun with friends, ice, and beer make for a great day for me.
I love to read (mostly non-fiction but Clancy-ish books are always good). I
rarely, if ever, watch TV or read the news. Somehow I’ve managed to survive
without knowing who got kicked off the island this week or who was shot and
killed in a gruesome murder in some Podunk town somewhere. I instead spend
that time doing what I view as more productive things.
My other hobbies are photography, videography, Macs, Akitas (my dog), and
playing/writing music.
So what am I looking for? I suppose it boils down to someone I can share
myself with who wants me to be a part of their life too. Sounds cliché I
suppose. Relationships are a perfect opportunity for people to learn more
about themselves and each other. They present endless opportunities to grow, I
believe. I’m anxious to share what I’ve been learning about life with someone
and equally (if not more) anxious to learn from someone else’s perspective.
I’m looking for someone to hold at night and someone to hold me. I’m looking
for someone to hold my hand while we drive together. Someone who is capable of
sticking with it until it's solved. Someone who cares more about being real
than being right. Someone who is assertive without being aggressive. Someone
who is loving without being a pushover.
Whenever I’ve spent a great deal of time describing my physical
type, I can’t help but wonder how many guys out there I’d find really
attractive, think they don’t fit the description and never write. I’m going to
leave it as height/weight proportionate with a strong lean towards guys younger
than me. I suppose I should mention that I’d prefer you be smoke/drug free and
HIV negative.
So send a picture and let's get this started!
