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This is an opening page for the web pages that I have done during Todd's treatment & since his passing.  I want anyone that is going through this or that has gone through it to have a page they can go & see that they are not alone.  If you are that person feel free to share your experiences with me by e-mailing from the link below.  If you would like to share a thought or request a prayer then please feel free to sign my guest book which also has a link below.  Feel free to sign as often as needed for requests, comments or sharing.
I always encourage letting out your thoughts and feelings while going through this kind
of ordeal.

I have met so many people recently going through treatment with a child or that know someone that is going through treatment recently.  These brave souls have much to endure & so much to offer.  They are courageous & sometimes end up consoling us during their ordeal.  I know because there were times when Todd consoled me.  He would make me laugh or tell me he loved me out of the blue because he knew that I was scared for him.  Todd lived every moment to it's fullest right up until he took his last breath.  So, I have decided I will make the most of mine & make sure that somehow my life will make a difference just as Todd's did.  He touched so many people in such a short time as do most children that are suffering from a life threatening disease.  They have such strength & it's amazing to see how they manage to get through it all.

Also know that just as there are many kinds of adult cancers so are there many kinds of childhood cancers.  For example; leukemia, brain tumors, neuroblastoma & alveolar rhabdomyosarcoma to name a few.  I have also added a link to The Candlelighters on
this page to provide more information about cancer & to help with resources as well.

Feel free to ask for help in finding other resources if you require them.  If you are have a problem finding answers I will do my best to help find them for you.  It"s my goal to help & be supportive to others.  God bless and may you find peace.  
        Sincerely,  Mary (Todd's mom)
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