There was an incident when I felt that one of my children was bragging about being ahead in school and he was under the impression that he had "skipped" a grade. I firmly pointed out to him that he had never skipped any grades. I told him that he had kindergarten, just the same as everyone else, but that I had been his teacher at home. I also informed him that the reason I did that was so that he could go into first grade sooner because he was a bad influence at home on his younger brothers and sisters. If he had been a wonderful child, I would have allowed him to stay home a bit longer. Needless to say, that took him down several pegs and I never again heard any of my children brag about being ahead in school. On the contrary, they did everything they could to avoid any attention to their ages. They have appreciated being ahead, but have learned to be low key about it around others friends.
Since this was really a big experiment for me, I have also tried to keep it low key. Those that have known have asked me about it and I share the information and have often been asked to write a book. But, have hesitated because the "jury is still out!" Now, with only two left in high school, I feel a bit more comfortable sharing my philosophies on early childhood education.
The second motive was that although I did well in school and enjoyed learning, my brother never really learned to read, write, or do math very well. Because he was unable to learn this in grade school, he struggled through school and barely graduated.
The third motive developed during my college years at UCLA. As an undergraduate psychology major, we had to "teach" rats to press a lever and we would reward and reinforce this behavior. I thought that if I could teach a rat, what could I do with my three year old son? Then when I was a graduate student in Education with an emphasis in Psychological Studies, I came across a number of learning theories and was attracted to those that supported being able to learn more material at an early age.
The fourth motive was that I seemed to always have a baby and toddler home and realized that by the time I was able to get a child ready for school, it was only a couple of hours before I needed to go pick up that child from school. That often required that I wake sleeping children from their naps or leave them unattended. Neither appealed to me, so I decided it would be best if I simply did kindergarten at home.
Given these four motives, I decided that I should put together a strong basics kindergarten curriculum. I checked into the laws, and since kindergarten is not mandatory, there would be no problem doing this. Then, I could send them to a private school for first grade, and after that the public school would be required to take them for second grade, regardless of their age. The public school is also required to take them on their fifth birthday into first grade, since they have completed kindergarten, even though it was done in a home school setting. Not wanting to switch schools mid year, I kept seven out of the eight in the private school for the entire year.
After the Tupperware ball puzzle was mastered wooden Playskool Puzzles were introduced. This was usually around the child's second birthday. The first was titled "My Birthday Party" and consisted of three large pieces: a birthday cake, cupcake, and hat. Each piece had its own fitted slot. After this was mastered, the next three four-piece puzzles with fitted slots were:
Colors I See: yellow sun, blue bird, red apple, and green leaf
For My Bath: pink fish, green soap, orange sailboat, and yellow duck
My Toys: truck, drum, ball and bat, and doll
When these puzzles were mastered, about eight seven- and eight-piece puzzles, whose pieces adjoined one another and were placed in a wooden frame were introduced, one at a time, until each was mastered. Then about four ten to twelve-piece puzzles were introduced. This continued until at about the age of 2 1/2 years, the child could complete several fourteen-piece wooden puzzles.
The next puzzles were those with hard cardboard frames. Again, the first ones introduced were four-piece puzzles and the same procedure was used until the child had mastered putting together 24-piece cardboard puzzles which did not contain any frames or lined guides. A new puzzle was never introduced until the previous one was mastered.
Other shape toys were used to reinforce those Tupperware shapes. Books focusing on colors were also used to teach.
When the child could recognize the letters "a" and "I," the child would "read" those words in any of the stories which I read to the child.
When I felt the child had mastered the concept that each word began with a sound represented by a letter, I would introduce a second letter, "B." Again, I would emphasize the letter "B," such as bbbbbbbaby. Other words were bbbball, bbbboat, etc. When the child had mastered the difference between these two letters, the game would begin. This was a game that could be played while I was driving the car. The goal would be to see who could get five points first. One hand held my points and the other hand, the child's points. I would be sure to rig the game so that the child would always beat me. This encouraged to child to want to play again and "beat Mommy."
After the child could clearly distinguish between the "S" and "B" beginning sounds, I would introduce the following sounds, one at a time, in the following order: M, T, L, F, H, R, J, V, A, G, O, P, W, N, D, E, Y, and Z. Again, no letter was introduced until the child had mastered the previous letter and was able to make the distinction between each of the previous letters learned. I never introduced the following letters, because of ambiguity: C, I, K, Q, U and X.
I was able to obtain discarded books from school districts to develop a library of wonderful readers. Every year the state would adopt different reading texts and several school districts held book give-aways. Some of these books "crackled" when I opened them and it appeared they had never been used. I was really grateful that these school district were willing to share these books with others, rather than throw them out. When the "Whole Language Approach" arrived in California, the schools either threw out or gave away most of their wonderful textbooks based on phonics.
The first books I used were the 1966 Harper and Row preprimer series by: Janet and Mark; Outdoors and In; City Days, City Ways; and Just for Fun. Then I used three primer texts: Around the Corner (Harper and Row), Our School (The Sheldon Basic Reading Series) and Worlds of Wonder (Macmillan Basic Readers).
About this time I came across some phonic-based readers from Lippincott and SRA. After these were mastered, I used about six first reader levels from different publishers and then went on to their second reader levels, and so on. Most of my children were into the third reader level by the time they were four years old and I felt they had a solid reading foundation and were more than prepared to enter first grade. I never read bedtime stories for my children after they were four years old. They read bedtime stories to me and put me to sleep. It was wonderful because I was simply too tired to read to them at night.
When the child was able to count to twenty, addition was introduced. The first step being to count our three spoons. Then separating them into one spoon on one side and two spoons on the other side. "How many spoons are over here?" "How many spoons are over there?" "How many spoons are there all together?" When this was mastered, we used four spoons, separating them into 2 +2 and then 1 +3. This continued until the child was able to master addition up to ten spoons in all variations possible.
Subtraction was then introduced in the same manner. When the child could master addition and subtraction up to ten, a simple math book was purchased at the local drug store.
Meanwhile, the child continued to learn to count to one hundred and additional addition and subtraction facts were mastered. Eventually, multiplication and division were mastered. This was usually done by the time the child was four years old and again more than prepared to enter first grade.
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