Have Fun Guys

So I hope my humble ramblings have helped. If I have offended anyone then that isn't what I set out to do, feel free to contact me as I am always open to lively debate with sensible people. Likewise if anything I have said has prompted any other questions also feel free to contact me, the e-mail is tracy_nigel@hotmail.com. So if the only thing that's stopping you is the stupid reasons, and if you are open to trying new experiences then I hope you have a rethink.

Just a few other little comments that may help. Ladies if your husband suggests that he would like to see you sleep with another guy or girl don't be worried or surprised. You would be secretly amazed how many men fantasise about seeing their lady, not only in a girl/girl encounter but also with another man. This doesn't mean he dosen't love you. It also doesn't mean that he wants you to sleep with other people, to give him the excuse of being able to sleep with other women. Men have always been voyeurs, its in our make up. From teenagers looking at dirty magazines to bachelor night strip shows men love watching women having sex. And what could be better than seeing your own lady enjoy herself with others and you.

Also guys if a married woman makes a move on you don't be frightened to ask if her husband knows she is doing this. If she says yes hubby knows then enjoy her. Don't worry about hubby, he is getting as much fun out of it as you are. Many guys find it difficult to be with a woman whilst there are others in the same room (especially hubby) but relax its cool.

Finally, people talk to each other. Tonight when you are both alone, ask your partner about their fanatasies. Try a little role-play where you are both different people. If you struggle to bring up the idea of sharing others in your relationship just leave this page open by accident, they will get the idea.

If you do decide to go for it but are a little unsure, the best way to start I think is this. Girls get that outfit out from the back of your wardrobe. You know the one, the one that makes you feel really sexy and never fails to get you noticed. Then both of you go to a bar where no one knows you and enter separately. Find a spot to sit apart and act like you aren't together. I will guarantee that it won't take long before you get some advances. After an hour or so go home and talk about how this made you both feel. How did it it make you feel seeing her being chatted up, flirting with a stranger. How did it make you feel having all this attention from another guy, whilst your partner was sat a few feet away looking on. If you are ready for this lifestyle you will probably end up riping each others clothes off halfway through the conversation, and then having the best sex you have had for ages. Give it a try, trust me i'm a doctor :-)

"Like Frankie Said I Did It My Way"