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You check the lists on Guyspank, Spankboy, Boyspank, Spankem all, Spankit, whatever. Always looking for another customer. Some respond, some don't. Not to be discouraged. So there was John. New profile on Guyspank. Lives way over the other side of Chicago, way out in the burbs. Looking for guys, regular give and take. May be what I'm looking for. So I write, he writes back. Says he has limited experience. Says he's nervous. Has a place we can meet. Younger than me, but not all that much younger. But the sound of his messages is that he's almost a kid. Anyway we agree to meet. I venture out into the mean world far from my comfy basement. Lots of traffic. Destination far from where I've ever been before. Just to be sure, to meet at local fast food place. Get there a little early. He walks in, no question just as he described. Probably looks his age, late thirties. Starts telling me about himself and his experiences. On and on, hardly pauses, hardly any inflection, kind of robot voice. Although he said he had limited experience, it probably adds up to more experience than I've had. Says he often doesn't get responses, I know about that. Meets guys and than doesn't see them again. Wonder why? Might be able to figure out why. Turns out that we're meeting at the place where he works. Fast food is his life's work. He has good verbal skills, good language use, everything he says makes sense and fits together, and yet there is a flat quality in his manner. Wants to have some male spanking friends. I'm getting really hesitant about whether I want to go through with this, but there is nothing threatening about him. Decide I've traveled a long way, what the hell, we'll try it. Takes me to his place, family away for the day, started to bring out his equipment. Leather paddles and straps and paddles and belts and he says he has a lot more. What a collection. Been doing this for a long time. He talks a lot, kind of a drone. He was cards and dice ready to play. Counting the dots on dice is problem for him. Thinks really hard about what's a high card and what's a low card. Tells me a lot of things about himself. Limited employment opportunities, lots of free time, reads a lot. He's really very articulate, but I keep feeling like he's kind of out of it. The usual game, low draw takes swats, he takes more than his share. Seems kind of amused. I think he's enjoying it. Kind of gentle with me but picks up the pace. He has a child like quality that almost gives me the feeling that I'm guiding him along and almost taking him to places where you should not take children. But he isn't a child. He's a grown man. Got real grown man butt. Although we kept our jeans on the whole time, we did both show each other our red butts at the end. Walked away saying I had enjoyed myself. And I did. Will get together again. And probably will. Don't think it will be a regular thing like he says he wants. Have an odd feeling.
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