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| Some people have pondered this question all thier lives,and some people have never pondered it at all........I have wondered this myself most of my life and here is what i have found. A real friend is someone that you call tell anything at any time and they will still love you and care about you no matter what. A real friend will never judge you,even if they really are bothered by something that you do,or a cirtain way that you live your life,a real friend will never let their own views or feelings get between you and them. A real friend is someone that will be there for you in both the goodtimes and the bad,and be able to support you emotionaly,physicaly and financially and beyond to the very best of their ability. A real friend is somebody that will always be honest with you,and even know the truth hurts sometimes,a real friend can give you an honest opinion or advise instead of just telling you what you may want to hear. A real friend is a real friend.......as much as you may think you know someone that you only talk to online,until the day comes that you actually spend alot of real time together,then the truth is you never really know who or what kind of person that they really are.....people can be foolish to think otherwise and sometimes decieve thierselves out of desperation of many things. Take it from me I have been there more times than I can count......you truley dont know anyone until the day that they are there in person. A real friend will always be able to forgive you when you have fights and petty disagreements,over any type of issue,from major to mild......and real friends do fight sometimes,and it these times do make that friendship stronger,and test your friendship just like steel being hardened in the fire. A real friend will never turn thier back to you,even in times that you are apart or keeping your distance....if you truley need them,and reach out to them,then they will be there for you no matter what. A real friend is someone that you should always love,cherish and make sure they always know how much you apprieciate them,care about them,and love them........take it from me,sometimes we take friends like this for granted,and as fate has it we lose these friends unexpectedly......I know one of the greatest pains I have ever endured is having this happen to me and I may very well always regret it for the rest of my life. I can go on and on about how I feel about this,but i will leave it here..... make sure your real friends know that you love them and care about them,because none of us are ever promised tommorow. |