Trevor, it is time for your 1st birthday,
and it will be hard for your family to get though this day.

Know that you are very much loved.
As you watch us from above.

A cake just for you, Trevor.

~Your First Birthday In Heaven~

Itís your first birthday in Heaven
And I know youíre happy there.
I want you to know I miss you
And your absence is hard to bear.

They say time will heal the hurting
And Iím trusting that it will,
But if I live a hundred years
I know Iíll miss you still.

So many fond memories
Of when we were together,
With you by my side
It was always fair weather.

Enjoy your self in Heaven
With Jesus and friends so dear.
Iím looking forward to joining you there
When my life is through down here.

©Bob Hefner 7-28-01


The infant days are past, and baby boys must grow.
They learn to sit, and then to stand, too soon they all let go.

But do they grow in Heaven Lord? If only I could see past the sun...
For if they do my little boy today is turning one.

In my heart I see him there, playing on a cloud.
With his little angel friends, together they are proud!

Angel cake & white ice-cream is served for all around...
As he sits upon Jesus' lap, with all his love abound.

They laugh and run, dance and play amongst a billowy field.
Together there they hurt no more...their little hearts are healed.

The tubes and wires, tapes & blisters, they're no longer there.
No more poking, no more prodding, winds of love blow through his hair.

From infant to this little boy, how fast the time went by.
Some days it seemed the world stood still, at times it seemed to fly.

Today as one year has passed, alone we'll spend in thought.
We'll celebrate a life that was, and share what all he's taught.

The bond that links us with this child, too strong to ever sway.
In our hearts & in our dreams, he's never far away...

This day will be a celebration
Of the short time you were here.
You will always be remembered
With great love & sometimes tears.

But only to feel pain and sorrow
would not be quite fair to you.
Your life meant much more to us
More than you ever knew.

You were here so briefly
We wonder if you know,
All the ways you've touched our world
Since that day God called you home

Now, our son, you're an angel
With our heavenly Father above.
We see not only what we've lost
But our capacity to love.

There will always be a void
Our souls will grieve forever.
Will we forget or stop loving you?
No, not now...not ever!

As this sad day is upon us
Oh! How our hearts still hurt.
But even as we mourn your death,
We celebrate your birth.

Author Unknown

Messages from family and friends:

From Uncle Wayne

I just wanted to say thank you to you for this moment and time shared.
I know Kristi and Brain are having hard times. As her uncle I wish I
could help out more. But with friends like you and family members we all
will get thru hard times and good times. Something to remember is that
Trevor will have Grandpa JOE,Grandma BIRDIE AND DOROTHY. My Mother in law
Louise and Father in law Jim there to look out for him and to LOVE HIM.

We all have our ways of dealing and loving so

love you all,

If any other family members or friends would like to leave a message
for Kristi and Brian or Trevor, please feel free to email me, Tina.