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		Yet again, I've been thinking long and hard about meeting other girls. I had a bad experience a while back that was no-ones fault but was partly due to a mismatch in expectation. I decided to take a long, hard look at myself and my wants and ended up writing a long piece,  mostly to myself, that I think summarises how I feel and what it is that I want. Am I being realistic? Only time will tell, but I do know now that I wont settle for second best - life's too short for that.......
	''...What I want, is someone who can treat me like the mature, intelligent woman that I am. Someone who will treat me well, and kindly and confort me when I'm sad and make me laugh when I'm not. Someone who's strong but gentle who can take the gift, freely given, of my body and sexuality and use it for their pleasure without pain or humiliation. I'm not a toy, I'm a real person, and even when I cant be Trisha, she's there in my heart. I'm not a slut, although I can behave like one, but I do believe in the power of carnal delight and the power of giving by receiving. What do I have to give in return? As well as my body? Warmth, wit, affection, laughter, and complete commitment to pleasing my lover. I want to give - please take me, fill me, and fulfil me. What sort of person are you? I need a tall, slender, mature, confident, and dominant transvestite, secure in both her masculinity and femininity. Feminine enough to be gentle and intuitive. Masculine enough to want to use my body for your pleasure. I'm a part-time girl with emotional ties in 'real' life that are important to me. From the moment we meet to the moment I leave, I am completely and utterly yours, sexually. Outside that, I'm a real person with a different life, so you can borrow me for an afternoon but you cant own me. I value the erotic not just the purely sexual and treasure caresses, hugs, and soft kisses.  I'll be a woman for you as long as you treat me as one, wih respect and patience. Pain, comstraint, and humiliation are abhorrent to me but if you treat me with dignity and affection, I will submit completely to you.  If you dont respect me enough to practice safe sex, you're talking to the wrong girl. So use your femininity to turn me on and your masculinity to enjoy me. Do I sound fussy? I hope so - I dont do this lightly. I'm fed up with screwed up people with secret agendas and with people who want sex without eroticism. Dont get me wrong, I've had beautiful times with wonderful people  so I do know whats possible. If you want to meet me, expect to exchange emails first until I feel I know you and understand your needs. I dont expect you to be beautiful or 'passable', I'm not. I do expect you to have a true feel for the woman within you and that will reflect in the way you look and the care you take in your appearance. For that reason I need to see photos of you before we think of meeting. If you think you might interest me and you find me attractive, email me.  If you dont, I'm still happy to talk to you - I'm a friendly and sweet natured girl and we might become friends if we cant become lovers......''