So youre happy to get in touch? Maybe meet? Ok, here are some pointers:
1/ If you are new to all this, you dont have to wait to be asked. If you see someone you really fancy, mail them and say Hi. Compliment them on their looks maybe.
2/ For goodness sake, dont just say you want sex. We're girls who revel in femininity, remember? Personally I'm a sucker for the gentle approach. Just for fun here are a couple of examples of the right way and the wrong way....
First the 'subtle as a flying mallet approach:
'Saw your pictures. I have a huge c****. I'm in XXXXX this week. Lets F***..... Kevin'
Alternatively:
'Hi Trisha, love your pictures. You are so feminine and a beautiful mature woman. I've attached mine. It would be lovely to meet some time if you'd like that. Love and kisses, Felicity...'
3/ If you do approach another girl, dont be over ambitious. Read what they have to say and take heed. If they say 'Guys only' - forget it. If they want smooth young girls you're probably wasting your time if you're hairy legged and 50. Not that I used to do so badly, by the way!
4/ If you do get approached, reply even if you dont fancy them or you dont like their style. Its quite nerve-racking coming on to someone, and pure politeness says reply even if its 'thanks but no thanks'.....
5/ If it's you who's asking, and you get a negative reply, leave it. 'No' means 'no', right?
6/ Quite a few girls are into cyber-sex. They dont want to meet but do want to exchange explicit emails. Nothing wrong with that (although in my opinion it's like eating chocolates with the wrapper on) as long as it's not disguised as a desire to meet face to face. If you dont want it though, you have the right to say so.
7/ You've probably talked on email, IM, chat etc. I suggest that before you actually commit to meeting, you arrange a time and phone. Refusal to speak by phone can be a good indicator you have a timewaster on your hands. But a phone call also can help you make your mind up to. If they sound nice ........
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