The Big Day
Its the big day. Have a really close shave - there's nothing worse than stubble, believe me! Also, and I know this might sound obvious, make sure you're bathed or showered. Ideally prepare for your date properly with lots of sweet smelling bath oils and powders so that you feel as feminine as possible.

Girly gear packed? Ready to drive to your meeting place and fling yourself in your lover's arms? Remember that at least one of you will be dressed as a guy when you first meet.  Now if the thought of that turns you off big time then its time to rethink. You're about to have sex with another man. Remember she'll also sound like a man which is something that still catches me out for some reason! Now if you cant handle all of this, you're not ready, you really arent.......
Lets assume you can handle it - you're just about to have an amazing experience! I cant offer any more words of advice except two little words -SAFE SEX! Just because you're both bisexual doesnt mean that HIV isnt a danger. If you're going to have penetrative sex, you must wear condoms.  If its oral its a more difficult call. I dont. But then again, I dont swallow either. Its considered low risk. Up to you.

Just to wrap all of this up, and because its a personal site, I'd like to share my own first experience with you. It might help you feel less nervous (and no, I dont have the pics.....)

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