1912 - Born in Oxford second son of Walter William James Lay and Rose Margaret (Hine)

19?? - Offered Scholarship at New College School as Chorister – declined

19?? - Went to Boy Central School, Oxford because he preferred sports

1924 - Was a cox for Hannington Rowing Club, Oxford  (see photo)

1927 - Worked for the North Oxford, Garage – after finished schooling

1928 - Was in the Oxford Royal regatta (August)

1929 - Christmas rowing photo for Hannington Rowing Club, Oxford  (see photo)

19?? - Joined City Chambers as Treasurers Clerk for the City of Oxford (before marriage)

1936 - Amature Football (Oxford Times Article 24 Jan 1936)

1936 - Was in the Oxon senior League for Football (Apr 23 1936)

1938 - Married Daphne Eileen Lay at St. Aloysius Church, Oxford (26.12.1938)

1938 - After married moved out of the Bear Inn; Alfred Street and into 50 Linkside Avenue, Oxford

1938 - Tried to enrol for the navy but was colour blind so was not accepted

1938 - Joined the army

19?? - Joined Oxford Bucks

19?? - Trained in the grounds of Hartwell House

19?? - Went over in the Dunkirk Landing

19?? - Separated from his unit but escaped

19?? - Captured

19?? - Prisoner of War for four years

19?? - Worked in a Salt Mine

19?? - Worked in a Paper mill

1945 - Liberated by the Russian and American Troops

1946 - Only daughter born Annette Daphne Lay 14.04.1946


1987 - Daphne died of cancer 23.11.1987

1987 - Car crash on return from Daphne’s funeral – John was in the back seat of the car with him

1987 - Died of his injuries and a lack of will to continue without Daphne 28.11.1987



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Alfred William James Lay
23.11.1912 – 28.11.1987
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