Here is a quote that you might like to read.

This is a quote from a therapist. I believe that this will help but I also believe that praying to God about matters on your heart will help you as well. "Want to have a healthy relationship? Then find balance in yourself. By this I mean balance amongst your Critical, Nurturing, Adult, Inner Child and Rebellious Child selves (egos). In other words, don't have your personality be dominated by your Critical or Rebellious selves. If it is, you'll be extremely critical and/or irresponsible. Seek a healthy relationship by relying on your Adult self to help you solve all problems in a calm, logical, and rational manner. If you find yourself yelling or becoming too emotional with your partner during times of crisis, give yourself a "time-out." Get in touch with your Adult self, by asking yourself, "How would I handle this problem, if it were business related? If this person were my co-worker, how would I resolve this problem?"

- Cheryl G. MS, Licensed Professional Counselor

Soulmates

You are my soul mate.
You have the key to my gate.
I believe in true love
It was given from above.

You say I have your keys,
it doesn't cost any fees.
You say I found your locks.
How long were they beneath the rocks?

I broke through
It was due.
I can't explain it
We just somehow fit.

You are my other half.
You even make me laugh.
I hope I am yours.
I hope I found the right doors.

I feel you in pain
We both take it as a gain.
When you are in fear,
I am here to hear.

When we can't fight,
we are each other's knight.
You help me see the light
in the darkness of night.

You have seen the worst of me.
You know the depth of my sea.
You have seen it's beauty.
But, the bad is the duty.

My darkest secret you know.
It makes me feel so low.
You lift me up
when I hit a bump.

You have been my last chance
on my last dance.
I would fight
to save my dear knight.

You can say it's alright
but, I can see the hard fight.
I see pain in your eye.
I hear the questions of why.

Your wounds I can see.
That is when I dive under your sea.
I help you to be healed.
Sounds like a good deal.

We are there for each other.
I try to nurture like a mother.
You nurture me
when I am in my own sea.

When I am in need
you give me feed.
When I am drowning,
you are sounding

I look in your eyes
and see joys and pains of byes.
When you bleed,
I come to your need.

We feel safe in the other's arms.
We feel no harms.
You are my sunny sky
when the dark clouds are high.

We are each others light
both day and night.
We appreciate both the good and the bad.
Even when we have been had.

We cherish the love
like we do a dove
When the other is ill,
we take the bill.

If it is true,
nothing will make it blue.

Death will not even stand.
It may seperate our band,
but it won't forever till the end.

Author: Carol

I came up with the poem myself. That gives you an idea of my love poetry.

Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts. Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.

30 ways to know if you have found your soulmate.

1. You trust them with even your life.
2. You have things in common.
3. You have good communication.
4. You share the same faith.
5. You can compromise.
6. You respect each other.
7. You can rely on each other.
8. You comfort each other.
9. You love each other.
10. You sacrifice little things for each other.
11. You think alike.
12. You love them for the good and the bad.
13. You help them learn. Not diss them.
14. You stick up for each other.
15. Don’t hold grudges.
16. FORGIVE!!
17. Love yourself first!
18. Don’t make them change.
19. Love your partner for who they are.
20. Help each other in need.
21. You are NEVER hateful.
22. You help heal each other’s wounds.
23. You share the work.
24. You feel safe around each other.
25. You don’t take the other forgranted.
26. Your face brightens when you see them.
27. You cry in front of them without embarrassment.
28. Say ‘I love you’ and mean it.
29. You calm each other’s fears and anger.
30. YOU FOLLOW WHAT YOUR HEART TELLS YOU!!!

Here is a good quote I found.
"You learn to trust not only each other, but also your ability to grow together. You learn that you put your partnership most at risk by avoiding that which you are most afraid will destroy it." Gary Zukav

Do you want to know what a soul mate is?

Read this script then that I have that is originally from a guy named Richard Bach.

A soul mate is someone who has the locks to fit our keys and the keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we really are and not for who we're pretending to be.

Each of us unveils the best part of one another. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we're safe in our paradise. Our soul mate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we're two balloons,, and together our direction is up, chances are we have found the right person. Our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life.

This I really believe is true. I have found mine and anyone else can too. Just be patient. Love does take time!!! Patience is the key to everything. Love is like a rose, nurture it, care for it and it becomes a beautiful flower. Neglect, abuse it and flower will die. Remember this the next time you see a rose. Love works the same way.

Relationships are the most challenging and the most rewarding aspects of this life. The more intimate the relationship the larger opportunity for growth we are given. Relationships are mirrors for us to learn more about ourselves. There are three different types of relationship mirrors.
One is the mirror of who you were. This mirror gives you the opportunity to see how far you have come, the chance to experience the karma that you have already cleared. So don’t get caught up in this relationship worried about why it is coming back at this time, thank it and let it go.
A second type of relationship is the one that is mirroring where you are now on your path. If an issue or person has an emotional "charge" to it, then you still have work to do. This mirror is the hardest to look at because it reflects the things you have not yet finished in your karma. These are the things that we are the most blind to.
The last type of relationship is the one that mirrors your potential. This allows you to have a glimpse at who you could be, if you wanted to. This person is usually someone that you idealize and put on a pedestal.
So look at your various relationships and see which group they fall into. By knowing this you will gain insight into yourself. Self understanding is the entire reason for these mirrors, not to ‘fix’ the other person, but to look at yourself.
Now there are two additional overarching categories of relationships that people always want to know about. The questions go something like this: "Is there a perfect mate out there for me?" or "Will I meet my Soul Mate?" These are interesting questions.
The entire reason for most relationships are so that you can work on your spiritual self and your karma! So with that said, the more you clear up issues for yourself, the more you ARE the ‘right’ person, the more you will attract the person you are looking for.
Soul Mates and Twin Flames are not the same thing. Soul Mates are other souls that have agreed to connect with you on this planet for a purpose. In some cases it is to clear up karma, in other cases it is to finish unfinished business, and for some it is to accomplish a particular goal together. These relationships may be a joy to be in or these relationships may be a pain in your life. Either way they are here for a reason.
When Soul Mates first meet they sometimes feel as if they already know each other. They may feel very familiar to each other. Soul Mates can have a beautiful relationship together, but it will take work. Soul Mate relationships may last a lifetime and others may only be for a particular purpose and be temporary. You can have more than one Soul Mate in a lifetime.
Twin Flames are very different and very rare. Twin Flames are two people in two separate bodies that share the same Soul. Twin Flames meet each other in their first incarnation so that they remember the soul frequency of the other being. They are then usually reunited on their last time to this planet. If Twin Flames meet before they are ready they can be the total opposite and not at all compatible. When Twin Flames meet and are ready for each other, it is the most enjoyable experience possible on Earth.
At this point, Twin Flames are almost identical. They truly compliment each other and it is a hardship for them to be apart. As an outside observer it is sometimes hard to distinguish the two people. They also have a very strong bond and often have telepathy with each other. Their lives even before meeting each other have many parallels. Again, meeting your Twin Flame is very rare on this planet.
So, all relationships serve a purpose and should be honored and appreciated for what they have to offer you in your personal spiritual growth. Thank the person and the experiences for all that you have had the opportunity to learn and clear. Know that ALL relationships are sacred, because they bring us closer to the Light of All That Is. Amen and Be Blessed! way.