Ms. "P" from Detroit writes: Dear Kathy, I admire this guy down the street from me. How can I get him to notice me? Dear Ms. "P", To start with, lose the baseball cap and perhaps wear contact lenses. Try dressing up in a nice flowery dress, and do-up your hair with lots of hair spray. Doily on the dress is optional, of course. Hope this helps! Hmmm. Now where are my glasses?