A page for the advice on friends... Has your friend confessed a secret to you and you don't know how to deal? Has a friend betrayed you? Have you betrayed a friend? Feel free to spill with the promise of some advice!!
	Last year my friend, we'll call him "F" started dateing this chick, we'll call her "G".  All was happy, but I would like to add that I was also friends with "F's" brother "B" and I work at the same place as them and hang out with the same people. So september roles around and "F" and "G" are still dateing and "F" is terribly whipped! And "G" isn't just trying to whip him, she thinks we all should be whipped to! But out of respect I don't say anything I do however, post it on my livejournal because I felt the need to vent. As time passes I bottle up all my emotions, mostly my seething hate for "G", I'm not the only one too, lots of people hate her and the whiney little bitch "F" has become! All the while I've been posting this on livejournal because I was REALLY mad!!!  So finally January comes around and by some act of God "G" reads my livejournal and clearly I have used some very vulgar terms about her, so she is not happy.  She gets all upset but waits till we're both at a social gathering to bring it up.  She didn't calmly bring me to the side. No. She tries to make a scene so everybody in the room can hear her!!! But no one really cares. But as she was leaving she starts going FUCKING NUTS!!! Yelling and screaming at me and calling me down as I just sit on the couch and nod. After she's done I calmly present my side of the story and she decides I'm not to hang out with "F" anymore. Okay so the next day they're not at school, I skip a class and she's got the whole net work going! She has told everyone everything I said in my livejournal. But everyone seems to understand, she's using the whole propaganda thing now. Well now we're in the present day, he's still whipped and she's still.. many words.. I don't want anythign to do with them.. I just want some advice to know if I handeled everything right because somtiems I still feel like an asshole for it. Winnipeg, MB "Doc"
			Dear "Doc", I think you handled things quite well for someone your age.. Normally people will start a huge drama war when in your case.  Though if you still feel like an asshole about it I think this whole ordeal ended with out any sort of closeur which can tend to leave some guilty or akward feelings that can last for a very long time. Might I suggest you tell "F" or "B" how you feel about everything and about your disappointment in "F". ~~Meegz
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