The
Aminah Assilmi Story
Former Baptist explains why she is now a Muslim
By
Rebecca Simmons, Abilene Reporter-News, Saturday,
November 1, 1997
She
used to be a Southern Baptist, a radical feminist and a
broadcast journalist. Now Aminah Assilmi is an
ambassador of Islam.
The
director of the International Union of Muslim Women,
Assilmi calls Fairfield, Ohio, home. She travels the
country speaking on college campuses, increasing public
awareness and understanding of the faith.
She
wears the traditional Islamic hijab, which includes a
head scarf, covering her hair and neck and modest
clothing with long sleeves.
Last
week at the University of Tennessee, Assilmi spoke to a
near-full audience on the status of women in Islam in
her lecture, "A Muslim woman speaks from behind the
veil."
Assilmi cautions critics who say that women are
oppressed in some predominately Muslim countries. She
says their practices are cultural, not Islamic.
"People who are held down, are held down by ignorance,"
she said. "They follow cultural practices. Do not judge
Islam by these individuals who have only practiced like
the people in their family."
But,
Assilmi told audiences, she hasn't always been a Muslim
and a proponent of Islam.
Meeting her first "real life Muslims" when she took a
college theater class some years ago, Assilmi said she
almost dropped the class when she walked into the room
and saw some Arab students in traditional hijab.
In the
handbook she authored, "Choosing Islam," Assilmi writes,
"There was no way I was going to sit in a room with
dirty heathens. .. I shut the door and went home."
After
her husband encouraged her to go back to the theater
class, Assilmi said she felt it her duty to "convert the
poor, ignorant Muslims."
Hoping
to convert the students to Christianity, Assilmi began
to study the Koran, the holy book of Islam, in a quest
to prove that Mohammed was a false prophet and that
Islam was not a valid religion.
But
the more she read, the more she became interested in
Islam. She was particularly interested in what the Koran
had to say about men and women.
Islamic women, she thought, "were freely beaten by their
husbands and tossed aside."
Assilmi says she had based her opinion on stereotypes;
and soon found out those ideas were not in keeping with
the Koran.
Through intense study, she said she learned that Islamic
women are equal to men and are paid according to the job
they do regardless of their gender. Both men and women
have equal rights to education. Islamic women have had
the right to own property for more than 1,400 years. And
when a woman marries, she does not change her last name,
but keeps her father's last name.
Thus,
Assilmi told her college audience, "We remain our own
distinct individual."
"For
two years I studied in order to convert Muslims to
Christianity," she said.
But
during that time Assilmi said she started to change. Her
husband began to notice that she no longer had an
interest in going to bars or parties. She was content to
stay home and study the Koran.
"I was
quiet and more distant," Assilmi writes in her handbook.
Her
husband attributed the changes in her to another man and
the couple separated.
After
she moved out with their three children, Assilmi was
visited by a Muslim holy leader who answered her
questions about the faith. He asked her if she believed
in only one God and Assilmi said yes. He asked her if
she believed Mohammed was His messenger. Again she said
yes.
"He
told me I was already a Muslim. I argued that I was a
Christian, I was just trying to understand Islam. I
couldn't be a Muslim! I was an American and white!
"We
continued talking. Later he explained that attaining
knowledge and understanding of spirituality was a little
like climbing a ladder."
The
first rung on the ladder was the Shahadah, a statement
of belief that there is no God but the one God and
Mohammed was his messenger. The Shahadah, done before
witnesses, is in the Islamic faith, the Christian
equivalent of a statement of belief in Jesus Christ as
Lord and Savior.
For
Assilmi, taking Shahadah in 1977 was the first step
toward a a deeper understanding of Islam.
But
she still had a few hang-ups -- like hijab. Hijab is the
modest dress worn by both Muslim men and women; however
its most recognizable feature is the head scarf worn by
women.
"I
agreed with modesty, but I was vain about my hair,"
Assilmi said. "The Koran tells us to cover ourselves to
be identified as Muslims. I am a Muslim and I know what
my God-given rights are. Hijab is not a requirement or
restriction, but a right and a privilege. I would fight
to the death to wear it."
"I
gave up being a women's liberationist -- it wasn't
fulfilling -- I became a Muslim ... Liberation, yeah,
that's Islam," said Assilmi who adopted her name during
the Iranian hostage crisis in 1980.
She
adopted the new name "to protect my family from
ignorance." She no longer uses her given name.
Assilmi said Islamic women are not limited in
professional fields by their religion. However, "The
most powerful profession is being a mother. Because we
form the mind of the next generation."
Muslim
women, she said, are often discriminated against because
of the hijab.
"In
this country it's extremely difficult for Muslim women."
That
is why some Muslim women wear varying degrees of hijab.
For example, some women might wear loose-fitting modest
clothing, others may wear the head scarf, covering the
hair and neck, and still others may have the courage to
wear the face veil where only the eyes are visible.
An
award-winning broadcaster in the Denver market, Assilmi
lost her job when she began wearing Islamic dress.
She
says the persecution is intense.
"I've
been forced off the road before -- beaten up -- and I've
never lifted a hand against anyone," Assilmi said.
She
even tried to wear the face veil, but said, "I could not
handle the experience."
The
defining moment came when she tried to cash a check at
her bank wearing the face veil. A bank security guard
drew his gun preparing to shoot if she made any
questionable moves.
For
Assilmi, her job as a broadcaster was not the only thing
she lost when she first chose Islam.
Her
marriage over, she also lost custody of her children
because the court decided that the "unorthodox religion"
would be detrimental to them.
But
since then, Assilmi says her children have converted to
Islam and so have her parents and her ex-husband.
"Relatives of mine are still becoming Muslim right and
left," she said.
Now at
"well over half a century" and having survived bone
cancer, Assilmi has made two pilgrimages to Mecca, a
holy trip that Muslims are instructed to take in their
lifetime. The cancer weakened her bones and now she uses
a wheelchair as a "mobility enhancement."
"God
decided that I would continue to live," she said.
And,
"I ceased to be afraid of anything. It became very
important that I would speak the truth everywhere. I
would have to answer to God for everything I do and say.
"I
love sharing Islam."
(Rebecca Simmons writes for The Knoxville News-Sentinel
in Tennessee.)
Also read Aminah Assilmi's story of conversion to Islam
in her
own words.
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