#2 Mistress Lori's Chastity site. Mistriss Lori explains the advantages to women of enforcing chastity on thier men and she presents a keen understanding of the male's psychosexual dynamic that makes enforced chastity the most natural and moral avenue for happier marriages. The site, however, is not as devoted to monogamy and morality as this site or the DWC site. It is educational, though, to learn how many men actually pay Mistriss Lori to hold the key their chastity device. It underscores the male need to be regulated by a strong woman.
#3 Whap Magaizine This site is dedicated to every aspect of the submissive/dominant relationship between men and women. It is a great place to get ideas and is intelligently and attractively done. A few cautionary words about the site. While is full of ideas and understanding of the male submissive and the female dominant psyche, it does not share the same moral priniciples I adhere to in this site. For instance, WHAP often advocates that the dominant woman need not be monogamous in her relationship with her husband/boyfriend. The site also seems to heavily toward the fetish site of D/s.. As I've said, DD is not a fetish and your man's sexual stimulation should be bonded with you, who you are and the way you use power over him and not on the implements of DD. Whap Magazine often promotes a kind of infantal sexuality -- using diaper punishements which I, pesonally, have no use for. I prefer to encouage a more adolescent sexual awe in my husband. This magazine is unique, however, and the place I first began my understanding of DD.
#4 Mistress Wife This site was still under construction the last time I looked, but it is still quite the informative tutorial for the woman who wants learn how to improve her marriage and become her husband's goddess. There are quite a few advertisements so be careful as you navigate this site. Even so, it is exactly the kind of site I'd like to see more of.
#5 Jennifer's Punishment Corner This is devoted to the opposite power structure as mine, but it is done exceedingly well and offers a great deal of insight. I've looked for sites where submissive men discuss the the feelings and desires that are satisfied in the submissive role but have been dissappointed. Jennifer is a submissive woman who does a lovely job of explaining the beauty and power of being dominated. To hear her and others at the site describe the cleansing, healing effects of being punished is helpful in understanding the great favor you are doing your husband when you scold, humiliate and spank your him as hard as you can. Jennifer is an articulate intelligent woman who proves that being sexually submissive is not about low self-esteem or abuse, but about love,healing and psychological health.
#6 Lady Misato's Real Women Don't Do Housework Lady Misato advocates withholding sex from your husband in order to gain the upper hand in your marriage. While I believe with withholding orgasms rather than sex is the best way to achieve a happier household, Lady Misato offers a great site with a lot of good ideas.
#7 Dr. Elise Sutton Dr. Sutton is a psychologist who understands men like few others. She also understands women and explains how wives can benefit from "unleashing their female power." An especially helpful page at her site explains some ways a woman can unleash her Female Power and creat a happier life and marriage. Check this one out!
#8 Gloria Bame Ms. Brame is an author and therapist. Her book "Different Loving" explores Dominant/submissive relationships in a healthy and intelligent manner.
#9 BRC Article of Interes This article discusses the treatment of a male submissive. It shows respect for the submissive male who is strong enough to admit his needs to a woman and to accept his role as a submissive. Being submissive is not sign of weakness or inferiority -- it is often just the opposite. A good read from a pro.
#10 Amity For Women
These pages offer an insightful explaination of dominance and submission in a relationship. Amity understands a man's need to submit to a strong woman and she understands the reluctance women frequently have about taking the dominant role in a relationship. This is a must read!
The following are sites which I may or may not approve of morally. They do underscore the prevelance of male submissive fantasies. Some of them differ little from traditional male-targeted pornography except that they feature female dominance and male submission. It is the abundance of these types of sites that confirm to me the rightness of my approach to marriage. Traditional pornography is all about infidelity. The male sexual urge is biologically geared toward promiscuity. Most men, even the best of them, will be unfaithful in a long-term monogomaous relationship because fidelity itself is becomes a sexual turn-off. Sites featuring male submissiveness, however, prove that sexual fidelity can be a sexual turn-on for men and can be much more exciting than promiscuity if the woman recognizes the opportunity to use those male fantasies for the advantage of her marriage. It seems to me that the male fantasy of sexual submissivness is the only part of his inner sexual life that is compatable with sexual morality and faithfulness. Let's use these sites to learn more about our men and then put that education to good use.
Strictwomen.com This is a good example of the many sites that exist in order to exploit the male wish to be dominated by a strict woman. I do not recomment it for you husband, it has nothing to do with morality or monogamy, but it will give you a sense of what so many men fantasize about. The free pictures of women administering discpline to men may give you ideas about how to make you discipline more effective.
Dr. Arlenes Drew's program This a page from a site that I believe is called "Apron Strings" It advocates a rather extreme form of domestic discipline but does provide some helpful ideas.
The Alice Kerr Sutherland Society Around the turn of the century (1900s) Alice Kerr Sutherland wrote the book "A Guide to the Correction of Young Gentlemen" It has a decidedly Victorian tone and is considered by many to be the most perfect work yet created on the subject of Domestic Discipline. The Society was formed in England in 1992 in order to promulgate those teachings. The English have known for a long time what it takes to help a man behave like a perfect gentleman.
FemSupreme A Female Dominant/pornography site. Men are begging to slaves to these women. Use that energy to make them helpful around the house.
Other Word Kingdom Other World Kingdom -- Another example of men begging to be the slaves of dominant women.
No Nonsense Ladies Ladies teaching their men the right ways.
This is only a very short list. To get an even better sense of the prevelance of mens' submissive fantasies, check out the LINKS pages that many of these sites offer. You'll be amazed at how much of this is out there (proof of how much of it is inside mens' minds).
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