personality

The awakened hearts don't wait for the morn..they get the message from a twinkling ray..

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The journey of change begins with first person and singular number i.e."I". Are we ready to go through the painful moulting before we may become a butterfly from a caterpillar?Its a challange before us. But don't forget,we can't manage to remain a caterpillar.So its better to be prepared for struggle and persistence.This page is to share skills and tips to become conversant of similar cases.

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Its a flexible page.You can read,learn,edit,rub or amend anything from this page.Its always your freedom to play with yourself as your wish.Ultimately,its your personality. So,the freedom is yours.



		We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.

	Dear Friend, I understand that all the self made people of this world, be it the late Abraham Lincoln, former President of the United States, who failed at most levels in his early life,struggle hard with persistence. Such hardships may de-motivate even the strongest people in the world, but one who continues ,become the legend to be talked about for ages. Mr. Amitabh Bhachan who as a result of organizing one Miss World contest in India became deeply in debt. The media wrote him off and his career was finished. But today he is there, standing tall at the top of his career, the busiest star in the Indian cinema industry’ Mr. Sachin Tendulkar, a cricket hope of billions of fans across the world. One failure among his successes and adverse comments are made on his technique and play, so every time he plays he has to prove his credibility and make his game speak for him. The late Dhirubhai Ambani who started a business in the late 60s with very little. Today his business empire which covers a wide range of industries is worth billions of US dollars, or anybody else whom you know of this ilk, always had at least one constant source of inspiration and motivation, perhaps living or not living, something or someone who kept them striving throughout their journey to the highest pinnacle of their career or profession. This one person can be anybody – parent, brother or sister, friend, spouse or perhaps someone unseen. When Thomas Edison was in school, fourth grade, a note was sent to his mother by the school authorities. It said that your son is dumb, and we couldn’t teach him. The mother replied, if you don’t want to teach my son, it is your wish and decision but my Eddy is not dumb. What happened after that is a history. History is full of such examples, but we don’t have time to read them all.. We all know that there is a difference between ordinary and extraordinary person. The difference is the word EXTRA. Extraordinary people put in extra efforts in whatever they do. However, the term extra can hide many roads. Failing or falling is not a crime. Fullproof plans do fail: the strongest of buildings do crash; the unsinkable sinks - human beings are no exceptions. Of those who fail or fall, only some have the capacity to stand again; of those who stand, only a few have the capacity to walk; of those who are able to walk, only one or two are strong enough to run. Those who can run are extraordinary in every sense. During the process of achieving I may fail or fall many times. At that time, in the midst of journey, many people will leave me, my friends, my relatives and perhaps my parents as well. Because they say in Hindi " Waqt Insan per aiesa bhi kabhi aata hai, rah mein chod kar saya bhi chala jata hai." (Sometimes, when the time is not good, even your shadow too decides to leave you.) Sometimes I may fall so hard or the disappointment will be so deep that I may give up or change my plans. At that time, this person (unknown till now) will come to me and say, " You can do it, and you have to do it. I have confidence in your capabilities and faith in your dreams". You too may need such person in your life, right? Always remember a small story : At ten minutes to seven, on a dark, cool evening in Mexico City in 1968, John Stephen Arkwari of TANZANIA painfully hobbled into the Olympic stadium-The last to finish the marathon. The winner had already been crowned, and the victory ceremony was long finished. So the stadium was almost as empty as Arkwari, alone, His leg bloody and bandaged, struggled to circle the track to the finish line. The respected documentary filmmaker, Bud Greenspan, watched from a distance. Then, intrigued, Bud walked over to Arkwari and asked why he had continued the grueling struggle to the finish line even after the injury. The young man from TANZANIA answered softly, "My country did not send me nine thousand miles to start the race. They sent me nine thousand miles to finish the race" Effort is a commitment to seeing a task through to the end, not just until we get tired of it.