"musick, poetry, philosophy, & maybe a little s&m" — oya   I am a: woman
My date of birth: 11/30/73
Education: college
Ethnicity: Native American, half Caucasian
Religion: wiccan
Occupation: peer counselor,musician, acupuncturist trainee
Area Code: 706
  Height: 5' 4''
Weight: 250
Hair Color: blonde
Eye Color: blue
Cigarettes: never
Booze: sometimes
Drugs: sometimes
Self deprecation: often
Self love: sometimes
Last great book I read: Perfume by Patrick Suskind. Coming Home by Lex Hixon. The Cat Inside by William S Bourroughs. Swamp Foetus by Poppy Z Brite. Cat by Roger Zelazny. Mort by Terry Pratchett.
Most Humbling Moment: I don't like playing my music to drunks. It's always humiliating & humbling to realize no matter how good YOU know you are, uncouth types want nothing more than honey squelch Barbie bimbos who can blat out Madonna to the keroke machine instead.
Favorite on-screen sex scene: the orgy in Caligula. the love scene in Zabriskie Point. the Story of O. & all those funny campy 70s soft core musicals based on fairy tales.
Celebrity I resemble most: I'm usually told Kathleen Turner or Janis Joplin. bad body image makes me sometimes think Roseann. My eyes, however, are scarily like Kurt Cobain's, kinda angry & haunted.
Best (or worse) lie I've ever told: One night, for no reason, I suddenly found I had this perfect German accent. I sat around the whole night with this gentleman bum on the Staten Island ferry, fabricating (or maybe channelling?) a life in Munich I never had.
If I could be anywhere at the moment: If I could be anywhere right now it would probably be back in Olympia Washington, one of my favorite cities in America. But someday I want to go to Kutna Hora in the Czech republic, to check out this macabre church I've been admiring vicariously thru photos.
Song or album that puts me in the mood: anything trancey, but rocking. Stuff I can bellydance/slow strip to... "Blood Milk & Sky" by White Zombie. "Can't Lose You" by Type O Negative. "Raven" by Gabrielle Roth & the Mirrors. "Venus In Furs" or "Heroin" by the Velvet Underground. I dig Bach too. He's like architecture in sound.
Five items that I can't live without: My glasses, asthma inhaler & Gaviscon (unfortunately.) MY stuffed turtle from childhood. An assortment of interesting tapes &small comfortable pillows. Scented oils. Oh, & a guitar & a notebook.
Fill in the blanks: massage is sexy, massage all tied up by someone I trust is sexier
In my bedroom, you'll find: a small whip. lubricants. dental dams & condoms. an assortment of small & comfortable pillows. something yummy is nice too. syrup. or hard sauce for plum puddings.
Why you should get to know me: I am a bisexual half Cherokee female Saggitarius with Pisces moon & rising, venus& mars in Capricorn. RUBENESQUE but pretty.,, sort of shy, but smart & pretty funny once I lighten up. I love poetry.ii love philosophizing about anything & everything. I love jamming with other musicians.i want to love sex...but I can't seem to find people in a lot of the places I've travelled to I'm comfortable enough with to explore this more. So I'm a tad inexperienced...I worked for a time as a dominatrix, but I'm interested in learning a bit about my own submissive side now. I've not been much with men,but they are starting to intrigue me...I still love other woman tho. Mostly, I'm looking now for someone I can talk & laugh & cuddle with, someone who I can become braver sexually with, & who will be my friend/travel companion/bandmate as well as my lover. maybe even someone I can LIVE with, cos I never had a live in lover. Maybe someday even someone I can love enough to say Yeh. THIS is my future husband/wife. any of this sound interesting? even just the friends or jamming bits? I'll answer your questions. I LOVE questions. The more intimate & intellectual the better. I love to talk to smart people, & I also LOVE to talk dirty.
Age: 25 to 45 years old
Interested in: no preference
In/near this area code: 706
Education: college
Ethnicity: no preference
Religion: no preference
Height: no preference
Weight: 135lbs. to 195lbs.
Hair color: blonde
Eye color: no preference
Cigarettes: never
Booze: sometimes
Drugs: sometimes
Self deprecation: sometimes
Self love: often
More about who I'm looking for: You? are probably about my age, maybe older, maybe younger. You're wise but still maybe able to take child-like wonder in things. Are cynical, but not just a big mope. Are social but not a party animal. Are intelligent. Are NOT sexist or size-ist. I am what I am & am at peace with it. You must be to. I'm sick of people who are ok with bedding me but not into being seen with me after. You're adventurous, maybe like to travel, maybe like to get flirtatious in public (I'm big on exhibitionism). Should probably be a musican and/or poet, because I travel in those circles, & wouldn't want you to be bored, besides, creating WITH someone is a big thrill too. You're understanding, because I've had to be strong alone for years, & sometimes I want to be weak, but need someone to catch me. You're also understanding of my inexperience in certain areas, & DON'T try to coerce me into activities I'm not quite ready for. that's about it... really, that's asking quite a bit.