To answer this it's best to understand how a woman's desires are calibrated. Women are mainly reasoning instinctually -- they are looking for a good protector (remember this is not a conscious but a primarily instinctual reasoning process). That's why they really hate overly nice guys and tend to to go for pricks. Overly nice guys don't look like they'll step up if some real thug shit ever went down. So the nice guys become "just her friend".
(Just an aside, just for general info, there really is a small window of time after you meet in which a relationship is usually possible -- after that time passes, and she has designated you a friend, it is very hard to get her to think of you in any other way. The reason is because, in order to think of you as a friend, she had to convince herself unconsciously that you aren't a good protector. She had to talk herself out of being attracted to you. Still, though, it's not impossible to flip her back.)
My advice to you. Keep your game up. Whenever you see a girl who is hotter than this girl. Do not wait more than 3 seconds (3 second rule), just go up to her and ask her a question like: "Hey, is there a starbucks around here?" If she tells you where it is, ask her to walk with you there. She'll probably say no, but you broke the ice and you should do your best to convince her to have a coffee or get her number. That's what you're on the earth to do -- chase after hot ass. Remember, I didn't say you're here to GET hot ass. Only to chase after it. If you succeed, cool. If you fail, fine too. But in order to be a real man and in order to get the women around you to get all hot and bothered around you, you have to be giving off the vibe that says: "I go after hot women when I see them, and I don't give a shit if I get rejected, because I know I'm the shit and it's her loss". And that vibe cannot be faked. It can only come with doing, every time you see a hottie that is hotter than what you've had in the past. (Remember, chasing after women that are less attractive than what you've already had will fuck you up -- because you will also get rejected most of the time and, well, that will fuck with your self esteem. You'll be like "shit I can't even score with women who are uglier than my last lay!")
So after you've done that consistently for even a day, the vibe will start to form around you, and this girl will definitely pick up on it. You see, by laying it out as you did you basically communicated the following vibe: "I've come to the conclusion that you (the girl) are the hottest I could ever get -- and well, I'm tired of the game since it involves so much rejection that hurts my feelings and self-esteem, so now I want you to be my girlfriend". Not much charisma there, understand. As much as women say they don't like a player, a true player gives off exactly the vibe that tells them what their instinctual drives seek. And since, there are so few true players out there, the next best thing for them is the asshole. The dudes they've decided are their friends (along with those nice guys who "hate the game") are last on their list. That is, unless the friend starts to give off a new vibe of power that says: "I go after hot women when I see them, and I don't give a shit if I get rejected, because I know I'm the shit and it's her loss".
So go out there and start to devolop the vibe. And just to make sure you really do it. I want stories. Tell me what happened when you approached those random hotties. I like rejection stories. In fact what you'l find, is that you'll start to LIKE getting rejected almost as much as you'll like to get laid. Why? Because it will show you each time how it's no big deal -- each rejection will show you how powerful you really are. But that's some high level whore shit that I won't go into right now. Brush up on advanced macking as well: HERE
Peace,
Lonehawk
